A month ago My Boyfriend dumped me in the middle of a school day. I was kinda angry at him that day so i was like ok fine!! We have been together for half a year and our relationship was really good but at the past few months we stoppped talkin so much , he wouldnt sms or call me and he wouldnt tell me what he does and where he goes. Few times he went out with two of his friends and two girls and never told me about it I felt bad that he didn't tell me anything. He dumped me and his reason was because he feels like i don't care about him at all , well i felt like that a lot of times . A week after he dumped me we talked about it and i told him most things i didn't like and felt bad bout it. He said sorry and asked me if he would ask em again would i say yes or no , I told him i need time and weeks have pasted and I really dunno what to tell him . I still hav feelings for him but after everything that happened should we get back 2getha?
2007-04-12 00:44:44 · 18 answers · asked by Mooni_&L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have to ask wether or not to get back with him then the answer is no. If you thought it was a good idea to get back together then you wouldn't have to ask.
Move on there are plenty of other people out there who will call and sms you and make you feel special.
You mention that he won't tell you where he has been. Do you want to be in a relationship where you have doubts?
He is trying to blame you for the break up by saying that you don't care about him, what care has he shown you?
Move on and be happy
x
2007-04-12 02:26:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im like...99.9% sure he cheated on u and used the whole "doesnt feel u care for him" as a cover up..it was prolly the quickest thing he could think up. if a guy finds another woman he likes ur both on opposite sides of a weight scale...and the more he likes her that much weight is taken off ur side which explains why he kinda progressively faded out. the reason he prolly wants u back is cause she didnt work out and he knows ull be there to fall back on when he doesnt have anyone. so i think u should get even if u want my honest answer and just not even tell him. just shrug him off and find a new guy before he comes back to see if its a yes of no.
2007-04-12 08:03:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No*......if u both wanted to get back together you would have done so by now...it's been a month since he broke up with you......time to move on with your life. You will probably always have "feelings" for him as you cared for him a great deal in the 1/2yr that you two went out. Sounds like you don't Trust him* and sounds like he's not ready to earn that trust as he's lied or kept things from you.......I think you should just move on* GOODLUCK*
2007-04-12 07:50:26 · answer #3 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
options
1)maybe he thought u wer loosing interest. giv him a chance.
2)he couldn't do what he wanted wiv other gals so he dumped you, something went wrong, he wants you back. say no.
3) you handed him plenty of reasons to dump you when u had that convo wiv him, so its hard to tell if he is lying.
4)if you really know this guy well and you trust him(ask others about him to be sure, as in eg: what did he say to you the other day ect...), then youll just have to wait and see.
2007-04-12 08:01:48 · answer #4 · answered by waelalabed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get back together with him, have some fun and when you don't like him or the relationship anymore just dump him, and don't you even think about his feelings because if he goes out with other girls and doesn't take you nor tells you then hes a mean bastard and a cheater. to hell with him!
2007-04-12 08:21:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmm......well just see how much he wants you back......sometimes people decide to take a break to reaffirm their feelings for someone....mebbe thats what he had been doing. Ask yourself how did u feel when u were with him and without....which was better........and then assess whether his feelings for you are genuine .....or is there a reason behind that too........say yes but just be a lil protective about yourself......so that u dont end up being hurt again.....hope things work out for you both...good luck!
2007-04-12 07:53:27 · answer #6 · answered by shimmerssssss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT YOU LET HIM PICK YOU UP TO LET YOU DOWN AGAIN, SOUNDS LIKE HIM GOING OFF LIKE THAT AND NOT SAYING WHERE HES GOING IT SOUND A BIT SUSS TO ME SOUNDS LIKE WHATEVER HE WAZ UP TO HAZ GONE PEAR SHAPE AND NOW HES BACK AROUND, I WOULD DEFINITELY HAVE TO HAVE A GOOD THINK ABOUT IT, SOMETHING NOT RIGHT HERE,YOU SEE YOU ONLY DO THINGS WHEN YOUR GIRLFRIENDS NOT AROUND THATS THE WAY BOYS WORK THIS IS WHY IT SOUNDS SO SUSS TO ME, U TAKE CARE,THERES AN OLD SAYING ,WHAT THEY DONT SEE WONT HURT EM
2007-04-12 08:12:26 · answer #7 · answered by CARL P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are both young, sounds like you like each other a lot - yes what the heck - give it another whirl. What have you to lose ? Beats sitting around feeling miserable....?
2007-04-12 07:49:21 · answer #8 · answered by yahoobloo 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
GO BY YOUR HART I SAY!!
you been together for...half a year i think you should no if he really means it or not!!
eg has he changed from what he was like?? or what he used to do??
2007-04-12 07:58:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
AHHH GirlFriend now i would run up on him and pop his tires and hit him in the face with a large shovel!
2007-04-12 07:50:46 · answer #10 · answered by Cracker Barrell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋