Ok here's my question... I think too much... And in this situation now it's just terrible...
Have a new boyfriend now but am thinking too much about everything... Like am I in love? Are we going too fast? Does he actually really like me? is he playing me?
Now those questions just kinda ruin everything! I just can't stop thinking about it... so it's kinda making me nuts! Does anyone know what to do?!
2007-04-09 22:41:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi, well just try and take it as it comes, like try not to think about it too much, don't just think about your relationship 24/7 before you were in the relationship you did other things and thought about other things right? So you can still do that when your in a relationship or seeing someone.
When all we do is sit and think a lot of negative things come to mind, just go with your heart not your feelings. Sometimes these negative thoughts come from our past and ruin everything for us, so just try and focus on the now not past hurts or rejections, don't focus so much on your relationship and just go with the flow and most importantly stay positive and know that you deserve the best.
Chow.
2007-04-10 02:15:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound absolutely stressed and after that the anxiety.
YOu are too high up in the sky planning, thinking, wondering, worrying. Calm down girl. Try to take as each day it comes, don't think too much for the future. You never know what tomorrow brings. Find some other ways to keep yourself happy. Don't concentrate on ONE thing or ONE man. The more you go further to him, you will let him run. Try to get independance, security of your other happiness, be happy with friends and family, and let the time give you what it will - the love or not the love - with that particular guy.
Men love their freedom, don't choke him or he'll run!
2007-04-09 22:44:47 · answer #2 · answered by Spark S 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
imagine that he is also asking all these questions .....this way
am i in love?? well if your both thinking this you will both be doing the right things to find out if you are
are we going to fast?? both of you will be making sure your not if your both thinking about it
does he actually like me?? if you are both thinking this question you will both be showing your true side to make sure that you know whether you like the other!
is he playing me?? you will both go into the relationship with the right barriers up ensuring you dont get played
just you remenber this is your relationship and you dowhat ever your comfy with you go at your own speed and you ll be fine thinking like this all the time will only muddle up your thoughts and one day you ll throw away the right man !
2007-04-09 22:49:59 · answer #3 · answered by donna k 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when you fall in love, you know it. you cant explain how you know it but you will, dont worry. Im sure he likes you and hes not playin you. Just take a breather.. relax to some soothing music and give him a call, tell him how you feel and ask him how he feels, and try being a little romantic.
2007-04-09 22:46:17 · answer #4 · answered by Don 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow, chick you need to slow down and breath for a while, you will never be happy if you drive youself mental like that all the time!!!! chill out and relax!!! enjoy the relationship and whatever happens well let it be, dont worry about things until you come accross them!!!
2007-04-09 22:51:06 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2017-02-20 04:55:48 · answer #6 · answered by jason 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a new boyfriend. Give it some time. You are not in love yet. Right now it is just a crush. IF HE IS TREATING YOU NICE AND YOU ENJOY HIS COMPANY, JUST RELAX. tHE RELATIONSHIP WILL DEVELOP IN TIME.
2007-04-09 22:49:43 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is obvious.It will happen.Think of the questions but dont try to answer them.
2007-04-09 22:46:24 · answer #8 · answered by ANU U 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everything in moderation.
Ask questions but don't overwhelm your head!
Don't get analysis paralysis!
2007-04-09 22:45:05 · answer #9 · answered by DaMan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to chill out and enjoy the ride.
stop asking yourself these questions.
2007-04-09 22:43:19 · answer #10 · answered by shoby_shoby2003 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋