it was stupid i know, but i cant turn back time how can i possibly make it right? need serious help here, i'm a jerk i know
2007-04-09 22:38:37 · 19 answers · asked by king of spain 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Deny, Deny, Deny.Forget and try to be more discreet in the
future..If she tells on you deny ,deny, deny..
2007-04-09 23:10:57 · answer #1 · answered by Robert B 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, you messed up big time.
So you mind as well be quiet until the truth comes to the surface.
When it comes to the surface, be a man and fess up and own your situation!.
Lying will only delay the inevitable and dig you into a deeper hole.
You need to know this though-- if you lose your best friend as a result of this -- you really haven't lost much.
Because quite frankly, if your best friend means the world to you -- you would NEVER sleep with his girlfriend.
You have knowingly and willfully violated one of the edicts of Man law which clearly states that your friend's girlfriend is forbidden property.
You were well aware of the risks you were taking when you did it all for the nookie, so if you lose him, it was, in fact, your CHOICE.
Good luck.
2007-04-10 05:50:57 · answer #2 · answered by DaMan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No one can make it right. You should take whatever happened with her to your grave without telling another soul near you.
Telling the truth sounds right, doesn't it? But you are the one who gets the benefit of getting the burden off your chest not the girl nor your best friend.
Surely, you can ask for forgiveness, if the girl wants to come clean, but not before that.
2007-04-10 05:53:10 · answer #3 · answered by hananimsarang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's super important that you talk to your best friend. If you value your relationship with him - then you need to talk to him and tell him the truth. Once you keep this and then he finds out on his own or from his "girlfriend", then there is going to be a lot more trouble than if you admit it.
Part of being an adult, is admitting fault and learning from mistakes....hopefully you can do both.
2007-04-10 05:47:41 · answer #4 · answered by Jenn R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to that girl about that incident, if both of you are disturbed with whatever happened, then discuss the feasibility of various solution mutually, that include telling your best friend, but be a responsible person for whatever consequences happens then. You know what i mean here.
But if both of you decides to keep mum, then let it be, never ever talk or even think about that incident again. and move forward with whatever life has for both of you in future.
2007-04-10 05:48:20 · answer #5 · answered by Ajeet S 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, great. Now everyone presumably acts deranged for a while, and at the end of it all these friends hate each other, right?
The best thing that could reasonably be expected to happen is that he doesn't find out, and everything continues as before. Any chance of this, or are you, she or various 'friends' going to spill the beans?
I suppose it's too much to hope for that she or he would act sensibly about this, is it? No, I thought not.
2007-04-10 05:47:08 · answer #6 · answered by Super Atheist 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You're also not a real friend and your friend will not trust you again around anyone he's dating after what you did. You can make things right by not doing it again. People are willing to forgive after the first time, but it really should have never happened. The cardinal rule to being a best friend is that spouses and significant others of a best friend is OFF LIMITS no matter how attracted you are to them. There are some lines you simply do not cross.
2007-04-10 05:43:44 · answer #7 · answered by nabdullah2001 5 · 2⤊ 3⤋
What's done is done and now u need to sit down and talk to the people involved and sort the issue out it wont b nice and hurtful stuff will b said but it's better 2 b honest
2007-04-10 05:50:44 · answer #8 · answered by B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go get some self defence classes. Then get some class you loser. Try being a man and tell him yourself because she is going to tell her friends and it will get around eventually. Or.... ask her what she is going to do, is she going to tell anyone about it? I don't even know why I'm helping a dog
2007-04-10 05:49:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make it right by opening up to ur bestfriend.Well,u have to take responsibility for ur actions,thats why u have to let ur best friend know bout it.Wateva the outcome, accept it as one of those things that u can neva change.
2007-04-10 06:30:28 · answer #10 · answered by pinocchio 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's ok... and its very much ok if you are many in 1 room...But if you, you 2 only...that's questionable! Try to think! Is there are another space/room in that day? and if thers, why don't you sleep to another?---
2007-04-10 05:57:13 · answer #11 · answered by ╞...Mary..._^ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋