This girl whom I like has stopped replying to my text message since last Friday. I have told her my feeling last year but I have never brought that back up again, we continue to be friends and I often text her. Most of the time she replied. However, since last Friday, she did not and honestly, it worries me. But, so far I have been nice to her, helping her out, standing up for her sometimes and have also made a birthday card for her, etc.
I rarely talk to her at school because I am too shy, especially if she is around her friends. She did not reply; does it mean she hate me?
You know, it seems that.. My world is going to collapse...
2007-04-09 22:35:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I saw her with her mobile phone today
2007-04-09 22:49:23 · update #1
ei!!! don't be so paranoid...maybe she doesn't have load...why not try to talk to her personaly...if you really like her then do something...be brave enough to make a simple conversation...us girls sometimes hate it when guys are being too shy...and are only brave enough tru texting...
2007-04-09 23:36:57 · answer #1 · answered by helli 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in the friend zone my friend.
Being nice and standing up for her are all good things, but unfortnately sometimes doing too much can kill attraction.
If you like this girl you can't be shy and you can't take things personally. You've known her for over a year and you guys text back and forth so she's probably comfortable with you. My advice would be to call her. Talk to her on the phone. It could be a million different reasons why you haven't heard from her. Take charge, talk to her and spend some time with her where it's just you and her. Find out what she likes to do. A walk in the park is a good way to be alone with her and not have her friends around and you might feel more comfortable.
2007-04-09 22:44:59 · answer #2 · answered by mmatthews000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stooop being so nice to her! Texting her every day and doing all those wonderfull and thoughtfull things for her, makes her think that you are creepy. She already knows that you have a crush on her and the continued nice behavior is just more proof that you are needy and clingy and not worth her time.
That being said, and being true, her phone might have been cut off or lost. Regardless though, all the "sweet and thoughtfull" things you are doing have go to stop.
2007-04-09 22:44:03 · answer #3 · answered by Bubblz7184 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are still caring for her. Are you sure that she is not ill, or that she is not punished from her phone? Better check things out before you get so worried. By the way, ask her if she likes you next time you see her.
2007-04-09 22:43:05 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol, she may just be busy. Just take a deep breath, be a man and try to talk to her. I know its hard, i used to have the same problem, but in order to get over your shyness you have to face it head on. Just go talk to her, give it a go, and you can do it
2007-04-09 22:41:36 · answer #5 · answered by Don 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well .to be hornest ,you aren't attracted to her at all ..Accept it .
I have a few experiences whenever girl don't reply you , you got back off.
don't do so many things for her , she might find you clingy
2007-04-09 22:51:35 · answer #6 · answered by the_road_i_am_on 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means her mobile is not working.
2007-04-09 22:46:58 · answer #7 · answered by Kalu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sure she doesnt hate you ...prolly just busy, or her phone could be lagging...^^ or just busy hehe
just try talking to her, and youll see that ^.^
2007-04-09 23:00:52 · answer #8 · answered by abc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋