ok my gf cheated on me€?

Question

ok last night i was trying to call my gf and i asked her why she wouldnd pick up on msn she is like i dont wanna talk and i was like fine then she goes to me im sorry i cheated on u i kissed a guy the night before and i was like ok then then she is like u hate me dont u im like no im dissapointed and then she calls me and goes can u call me we need to talk then i call her and she say she wanna break up but the thing is she keeps telling me she loves me and to give her time wat should i do

Answer 1

u r wierd man.....one kiss and cheating and then break up.

I think only u mistook some talking for a seriour relationship in the past. She was never in love with u.

Boy, its time to move on and find a girl who is nice and loyal and really loves you...

Answer 2

You have an excellent opportunity here to show whether you're an adult human or a childish robot. If you want to behave sensibly, explain that you forgive her and that she shouldn't feel so bad. She's obviously feeling horribly guilty, even though she's done nothing big deal at all.

Then you end up with the moral high ground, and you'll have shown her that she means more to you than some silly little snogging incident.

OR you can just behave like an ordinary brat, throw your toys out of the pram, and make her feel even worse.

Good luck making your choice.

Answer 3

It's a bit much for bad manners, but I can understand what made you do what you did. You're angry, and you acted upon your emotions. That's normal. You should apologize if you still care about her. But since she cheated on you, i don't know how you would feel about her. I guess it depends on what situation you're in. If you have no respect for her whatsoever anymore, then forget about it and move on, what you did is done, and she did the wrong thing to hurt you. If you still care, then apologize, but walk away after that, dont take her apology and all that "i never meant to do it" crap. She cheated, and its really hard to trust someone after that. Apologize, and let go. Good luck (:

Answer 4

Hey mate,
Sounds to me like your woman has a whole bunch of issues she has not dealt with before she came into the relationship. If she wants to flirt with and kiss other guys, she shouldn't be in a relationship. She has created a drama and the push-pull she asks of you is the role she has scripted for you.

The fact that she didn't listen to you and told you that you hated her is that there is heaps going on in her head that ignores your opinion and feelings. She is not listening to you, she wants a drama. Don't play into her game.

There are two ways to go: Ask her what she really wants to happen; and dont accept her answer for at least 3 days. She will be forced to think it through slowly, you are being honest and open and not playing into her drama. Then, after a little think of your own, you can decide days if you want to be a part of what she proposes.
OR
Find another woman, they are still making them and this one sounds immature

Answer 5

She asked to break up. I would definately break up. If it turns out you both can't stand being apart, then you knwo you need each other. At the moment I think you need time apart, and if she did this of her own free will then I think you might deserve someone better. She keeps saying she loves you because she does regret what she did, but that doesn't excuse what she did at all. So just take a break, and see what happens. I'm really sorry you had to go through that

Answer 6

She only confessed to cheating to free herself of feeling guilty. If it really was a huge mistake she felt terrible about she wouldn't have told you, but tried to make up for it by being a better girlfriend. In either case, she cheated once, she will do it again. Dump her, and find a nice girlfriend.

Answer 7

I think she feel guilty, herself......

U should ask yourself whether you want to carry your relationship further or not.... ????????

I think u should carry on.... Becoz she is honest to u, as she told u.. that she kissed a guy...

U just meet her & give her assurance that u love her, if u really do..........

& ask her not to do anything like this in future......
& whenever u get the time just call her even for 2 min. or less than that........ & if she said again that She want break up then just tell her How much u care abt her, How much u love her....... Say : U dont want Any Break up.... & would like to be with her always...... ((((Please tell these things if u reallyyyyyyy feel the same,)))

GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!
U should meet her asap even for 5 - 10 mins, if u dont have time that will really help u.... Trust me......

Answer 8

Depends on if you want her to cheat on you again. Sounds like she is unsure of her relationshhip with you. I'd move on, and find someone that is not going to humiliate you by kissing other guys behind your back.

Answer 9

If this is one of those ridiculous internet relationships like over msn and **** then you should slap yourself in the face with a large tuna fish...

If its not then you should go back out with her for a few weeks
... Gain her trust again.... Then cheat on her with her best mate..... THEN if she really loved you she would stick with you.

Answer 10

She is extremely embarrassed by her cheating ways and is trying to break up with you to avoid additional feelings of guilt and shame.

Let her BELIEVE that she won by allowing her to break up with you.

This will probably be one of the best things that ever happened in your life.

Final note: If the wench asks to get back together, you should coolly respond, "Helllll no!" If she asks why, respond curtly, "You KNOW why", then kiss her on the cheek {not on the lips}, and then walk off!

She will remember you for the rest of her natural life.