like is that cheating or is that okay? also how do i tell my boyfriend i like girls? will he like it, or be mad? i need a guys opinion here..
2007-04-09 22:13:00 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-04-09 22:16:14 · answer #1 · answered by Yo its me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy. I think it's okay, provided all involved are aware of the situation. It's actually quite possible that you'll find a guy that would find your attraction to girls quite a turn on, and might even encourage you to partner up with a girl, if that's what you enjoy. I've dated a bisexual girl and I think it's terrific - I don't mind my girl "being" with other girls at all - just not with other guys.
Discussing fantasies is a normal activity between partners. You can discuss fantasies with your boyfriend, and if he's honest, he might reveal that he's one of the many guys that has lesbian or menage a trois ("threesome") fantasies. That would be a good time to reveal your hidden talents. :)
2007-04-09 22:19:20 · answer #2 · answered by The Oracle 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl, it doesnt matter if you both like Girls And Guys I'm even a Guy myself but to your Question from a Guys View it's okay but the only thing is that you have to tell your Boyfriend in A way That He will understand. But if you really like him or love him it's best that you just commit yourself to him alone and him only . But if you can't take it anymore with him when he doesn'r understand look for another guy who Understands...
But to you Girl I'm not gay or anything but for me Its just Girls.
So I hope that you'll be fine, So, Cheers Mate!!!
2007-04-09 22:28:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not wrong I don't think. Kinda fan-girlish but that's OK I guess. What ever makes you happy. Could sprout problems later in life, though, as gay men won't really want you sexually.. But I'm sure you're not that into them.
2016-05-21 05:00:51 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do whatever you like, and go for whomever you like. If someone can't handle it, they can always be replaced.
You have the best possible sexual preference. Don't let anyone try to limit it. You should eventually be able to find a loving triple relationship.
As to now - tell the guy. If he doesn't like it, he's obviously an idiot.
2007-04-09 22:23:13 · answer #5 · answered by Super Atheist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That means that u are bi. I think you should ask your boyfriend, dont you think that if you do that he will want to do it to but maybe not a guy but with another girl? I have no idea if he will like it or not I dont have his mind.
A friend of mine is Bi as well, she and her boyfriend have an open relationship so they both see who they want to see yet they are still together.
2007-04-09 22:22:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether it is a guy or a girl the bottom line is that they are both people and they both deserve the same respect. It is not fair with all of the diseases in the world today to not be honest with either of your sexual partners. They should have a choice on whether or not they want to take those kind of risks with their lives.
2007-04-09 22:23:04 · answer #7 · answered by lily_florance 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends...alot of guys scower the ends of the earth trying to find girls like you. If you date a girl without telling him, it is cheating. Your best bet is to tell him you are Bi, it could lead to some good clean fun.
2007-04-09 22:18:25 · answer #8 · answered by Bubblz7184 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would be a bisexual. Nothing wrong with that really.
Write it to him in a poem to help his reaction.
He will of course get scared but time will pass.
Watch the end of the movie Dodgeball and you will see that it isn't cheating
Hope I've helped
Cheers
2007-04-09 22:18:13 · answer #9 · answered by helpfulman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest with yourself and those whom you wanna be close to. If they're ok with it, good. If not, they can move on. I think most guys dream of being with a girl who likes girls too, but in a long term relationship, it can cause trouble- jealousy issues. I wish my girl liked girls. Dream come true!!!!!
2007-04-09 22:18:57 · answer #10 · answered by slert1985 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better be honest with both of them. Just tell them that you are bisexual, and you would like to be able to date both of them.. I'm not too sure either one will like it, but at least you won't get caught cheating!
2007-04-09 22:19:59 · answer #11 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋