We meet in high school where we were not even friends, but i was friends with his twin brother. We ran into each other bout 3 months ago and started dating 2 months ago. He just told me he loves me and that i have changed him and will i marry him. I really like him i would not say love cos i have not felt love for a guy/bf before, but i do have different feelings for my bf now then i have with the others....is it to soon? what do you all think?
2007-04-09 22:07:58 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yea it is
2007-04-09 22:10:04 · answer #1 · answered by bornonaplatein1988 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually yes sweetie it is too soon. It wouldnt be a good idea to say yes if you dont love him cuz what happens if some other guy comes alone and you are engaged and u find that u love the other guy?
Let me tell you something ok? I had a bf 2 years ago who I thought I loved. He asked me to marry him after dating only 2 months. I said yes not even thinking about it. Well as the time went by I begain to realize that it was all a mistake. I was with him for over a year and he became controlling and I was so stupid cuz I did not end it. I always thought that I would never find anyone else so that is why I kept holding on. Well we fought everyday and then we finally broke up because he said he wanted to be friends. But I found out the real reasonw as cuz he liked someone else. So my advice is dont say yes if you dont love him. And wait to see what he is really like. Guys changed.
Right now I am in a new relationship and I am much happier than what I was with the last one. So just be careful and think before you leap.
2007-04-09 22:16:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
At only a 300 and sixty 5 days, I wasn't waiting to get married the two- regardless of if I have been pregnant. i don't have confidence in getting married only because of infant- finally leads to undesirable relationships and divorce. i might stick to the direction only as though the newborn replaced into not coming whilst it includes the two one in all you. How are you puzzled via this being the three'rd time this 300 and sixty 5 days you have been pregnant? After the 1st time you're able to have used some secure practices (and don't provide me the Catholic line- maximum do use BC or condoms now). You have been attempting to get pregnant to catch him- and it did not artwork. The humorous ingredient is we are able to all help you understand what we expect of and in the tip, you will do what you want. i'm hoping all works out nicely for the three of you.
2016-10-28 08:07:34 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think both of you are mentally and financially ready to get married. Why not?
I used to think rushing into relationship and marriage isn't a good idea. Experience shows, there is no such thing as optimum years to know each other before you can date or get married. sometimes being with someone for many years...doesn't show the real person either. Sometimes you marry a person, after you date him for many years..but only 1 year into marriage, you feel he is not the one and you end up with divorce.
If both of you truely loves each other, has strong love, very compatible, can be lovers and best friends for each other~get married!
2007-04-09 22:30:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm sure the majority of people are going to say NO DON'T DO IT !!!! But honestly, only you two know. The chances are that NO, it's not going to work because it is really really soon......But then there are other few special cases when it totally worked, I'm sure. But think about it. IF it's meant to NOT work out, you will find out in time, so waiting it out would be good until you think you're ready, and on the other hand, if it IS meant to work, don't you think that waiting isn't going to matter??? However.......If you decide to go ahead and do it, then it doesn't work out, you have the process of divorce to deal with.....If you do it and it works, then really all you can say is that you were married a little bit longer than if you had waited.
2007-04-09 22:17:45 · answer #5 · answered by t.larae 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes it is a li'l too soon. But if you think he is the right guy - then tell him you promise to marry him (get a promise ring or something) but you need a little time.
If you really think its all happening too soon - just tell him that. Don't get married if you dont LOVE this guy. You might like a million people , but you can love only one- and thats who you should marry.
2007-04-09 22:27:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 things: If you feel yes say yes, but let him know that you will need a good period of time for your engagement (seeing that you havee only been seeing him in such a short period of time.
2: sounds like you have hav a good influence on him.
1: Take your time with all of this and let him know that you are not going anywhere even if you don;t want to get married to him right away.
0: you can say yes and not get married right away.
2007-04-09 22:19:55 · answer #7 · answered by Erica T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'd know if you were in love and wouldn't feel you needed to ask. I think two months into this you're not really ready for a permanent commitment. A relationship can still grow and be loving without marriage until both people feel they know each other better.
2007-04-09 22:11:17 · answer #8 · answered by charmedchiclet 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The idea is crazy. EVEN IF you were in love with him, why bring lawyers into the matter?
Be flattered at his obvious keenness, but tell him you have to be together longer first. If you feel stronger towards him in 6 months, move in together. If you can handle that for five years, then get married if you must, but why would you need to?
2007-04-09 22:17:40 · answer #9 · answered by Super Atheist 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you're having doubts than the answer is probably "yes it is too soon." If you truly love each other and think this is the person you want to spend eternity with, then what's the rush?
Be sure before jumping into anything. If he loves you'll he'll understand and wait.
2007-04-09 22:12:56 · answer #10 · answered by c diddy 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is to soon. You need to get to know him better at least a YR. go slow. a girl should not get married until she knows for sure she loves him. And at least 23 or 24 yrs old.
2007-04-09 22:37:33 · answer #11 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋