2007-04-09 20:25:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have you heard that a person who brings "a million family problems" to a relationship is not worth the baggage they bring? No?.....Well, now you have. (We all have our bears to cross, but this guy sounds like he has a whole zoo.)
2007-04-09 20:43:02 · answer #1 · answered by Rudy R 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ideally, dump him. Or, if you won't dump him, make him dump his family. Life is too short to deal with people with a bunch of problems, which (other than actual medical problems or something) are usually just made up. In the U.S. and similar countries, most of our problems are due to idleness. Seriously, there are lot of healthy and happy people out there, so move the hell on!
2007-04-09 23:26:40 · answer #2 · answered by Jacques 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure he knows your'e there for him. You can't ease his trouble, those are his demons to sort out.But you can distract some of the pain by leading him away from them by trying to keep him focused on you. That won't make them go away ,but there can be a few seconds or minutes of serenity for him and he'll love you for that. And like STAR said prayer for him sure couldn't hurt!
2007-04-10 18:32:55 · answer #3 · answered by howard s 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be there if he wants to talk, but understand that at some point you might want to recommend a professional counselor. There are some things you shouldn't handle.
2007-04-09 20:39:01 · answer #4 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him what you can do to help..... i really dont know you or your bf, so i cant give any personal advice because that wouldnt be right for me to give you advice when i dont know what his family troubles are..... good luck to both of you
andie
2007-04-09 20:29:16 · answer #5 · answered by andie... you know you love me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FORCE him to take a vacation, and while on it, give him all the love you can so that he forgets.
Additional: Just don't play hanky panky.
2007-04-09 20:28:47 · answer #6 · answered by Dowland 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for him to lend an ear, a shoulder or whatever he needs. (within reason, of course LOL)
2007-04-09 20:28:30 · answer #7 · answered by ~*Jingle My Bells*~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be there 4 him.AND pray 4 him too.
2007-04-09 20:29:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You stay out of the middle of it...Just be there for him if he needs to talk...
2007-04-09 20:36:59 · answer #9 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I apologize for Abusers answer above.
2007-04-09 20:33:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋