Is this something i should be worried about? He's really sensitive about things now and he's startin to get so worked up about every little thing i say. He thinks i might leave him soon and he's gettin parinoid...how can i help him out of these little panic attacks?
2007-04-09 19:27:19 · 17 answers · asked by butterfli8134 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Paranoia is a tough thing to deal with. Have you done or said anything to make him feel insecure? Pamper him a little, do a little something special for him and then tell him how he is making you feel. Address his insecurities and his concerns. He will be ok.
2007-04-09 20:42:54 · answer #1 · answered by Mia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like he loves you.. do you love him? well maybe he is parinoid beacuse you flirt with a bunch of guys.. or give him a reason to be parinoid.. tell him that you would never cheat on him.. till him that he can trust you.. if that doesnt work show him.. stop letting guys hitt on you stuff like that hope that helps
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2007-04-10 02:32:09 · answer #2 · answered by i ♥ Food 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should have a heart to heart with him to see why he has these sudden insecurities. In a non accusatory manor, I would ask him if something happened to upset him, if anything is bothering him, and if the conversation steers this way, I would ask if he had done something he shouldn't have that he would like to come clean about (cheating).
2007-04-10 02:30:40 · answer #3 · answered by Konjo Nashi Pirate™ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like something has happened- you need to take a look at what's going on around him- maybe you did something different- went out with friends and he got jealous, or maybe he has a friend who just got dumped or cheated on, or maybe he's just stressed out... try and see what else is going on, and talk to him... let him know that you arent leaving him, reassure him...
2007-04-10 02:42:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reasure him, I went through kinda the same thing and that what got me through, tell him all the time, I'll never leave you,I want to be with you forever etc etc. Hope that helps
2007-04-10 02:34:10 · answer #5 · answered by Johnny Knoxville 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talk things out with him. are you leaving him ?well if your not then talk it out with him before he starts assuming more things. If you just let this happen without doing anything about it , the sisutation might get worst.that's the best you can do is try to talk things out with him.
2007-04-10 02:33:31 · answer #6 · answered by MHD 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have to ask yourself what is it that makes him worried. there are a lot of things you can do to reassure him that you are only interested in him.
on the flip side, no one should expect their significant other to stop talking to the opposite sex all together. weight it out, see if his worries are warranted or if he is just crazy retarded.
2007-04-10 02:30:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might want to reconsider his change in behavior. That's usually a major red flag that he is hiding something from you, possibly cheating? Esp. since you said he's paranoid you might leave him....
2007-04-10 02:30:49 · answer #8 · answered by LuvUrGirl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell him to get professional help. if he has panic attacks he needs to see a therapist. this guy doesn't sound good. i think you should leave him until he gets his issues taken care of
2007-04-10 02:30:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit him down in a calm, closed environment, and tell him that everything is fine. Assure him that you still love him (if you do) and generally tell him that you are still wanting to be with him.
2007-04-10 02:30:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋