I like this boy a lot, but the problem is that I don't know if he has true feelings for me. He said he has an intrest in me but then later on, he said he likes this other girl. I really like him and it's really hard to forget about him. It's not easy to forget about someone you love. I don't know what to do. I really want to be with him too.
2007-04-09 18:57:15 · 14 answers · asked by ctv 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweetie, you can't really love someone until you know them. You may think there is potential to love this person because something draws you to him. The best thing is to spend this time to develop yourself (take up a new hobby, join a new club, take a dance class) When you ever see him, just smile and look like you are having a good time (hopefully you will be) You will be amazed how attractive an interesting and happy chick is to a guy.
2007-04-09 19:03:35 · answer #1 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the human race!
As one of our friends complained: "The gals I like don't like me and the gals who like me, I don't like!"
What to do?
There are other fish in the sea. This won't be the last guy you feel you love.
All these initial attractions don't often last. And if they do, and you get together, all is still not well.
Then comes the testing for compatibility. He wants children, and you don't. He wants two, you want seven. He wants to live on his own. You want to stay with your parents after marriage to save money for the big house. He wants the windows open and you want them shut.
Then comes the looking for compromise. You don't get married until you argue and learn how to resolve differences. Does he walk out on arguments? All these set the patterns of behaviour you will have to deal with your whole life long.
At the very start, if two people are not mutually attracted, there is nothing you can do. Just find somebody else.
2007-04-10 02:06:01 · answer #2 · answered by Minerva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to ask yourself do you really love him or do you love different things about him? From what I am reading you love different things about him there is a difference. But sometimes it feels the same. Also you can love someone and don't have to have a relationship with him. Love him girl but also go out and find someone to love you. It is funny how men can find you more attractive when you are with someone else then if you was single all then their face.
2007-04-10 02:05:19 · answer #3 · answered by just want to know 2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i nt sure if that guy is trying to test u out by saying he like someone else.
Plan A- Maybe u should test him out by pretending u have some admirers going after u. its somehow risky to do that at times.
Plan B- It would be better if you know his buddy, find out from him if he like someone else or if he even likes u
Plan c- If nt, the most straight forward way is to confessed to him.
Gd luck!
2007-04-10 02:07:02 · answer #4 · answered by bee bee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably unsure of which girl he likes most. I know that doesn't sound good for you, but maybe another girl he's been more interested in has lately taken in interest in him? Or maybe you're playing too hard to get, so he's going for another, easier girl.
2007-04-10 02:02:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be more obsessed than in love. He likes you and another girl and maybe a lot more girls He is not ready for the one on one relationship that you might want. And after a while, you might decide that you aren't either.
2007-04-10 02:02:52 · answer #6 · answered by jimanddottaylor 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well im not sure i can help much i but i can tell you its not easy toforget some onewanna hear my story??ok good.............................................i had just moved to this sschool and there was this cute boy but my best friend also liked him so he had to pick between us he picked me well we never even hugged but i knew in my heart he loved me and he wasnt ready to rush into a realationship and we went out for about a month and a half and i ended up moving again and its been 9months and i still havent forgotten him i still see his face in my head and way be your self and if he does have true feelings for you you feel it!!
⥠ember â¥
2007-04-10 02:03:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont think he's worth it hunn. if he really did like you, he wouldnt be messing around with other girls. i say go after someone else. there's plenty of fish in the sea!
and please dont mistake love for liking someone A LOT. there's a difference you know. GOOD LUCK!
2007-04-10 02:05:29 · answer #8 · answered by perfectly_unperfect 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u just go and tell him your true feeling and if he said no leave him alone and look forward and don't be sad that is the life
2007-04-10 02:03:46 · answer #9 · answered by liestealcheat2win 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you really like him persue your ambision you will succeed in due course
2007-04-10 02:10:16 · answer #10 · answered by vnbmuliyala 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋