how do i completely flush a cheating ex out of my system?

Question

i tried killing my self. it didnt work. i cant stop shaking. omggggg ='(

he was my life...everything he said....ughh omggggg

Answer 1

Move on....

Answer 2

Go to different places, make new friends, do not go any place you think ex might be at, do not call ex or talk to ex, do not answer if ex calls. Killing yourself is not the thing to do, and can cause you to be put in a mental ward. There is no ex worth all this . It is your own responsibility to control this situation without being stupid, like trying to kill yourself. If you had succeeded, it would not have mattered one way or another to the ex, the ex would just keep going on and living life to the fullest. Stop thinking about it and do something about it.

Answer 3

I'm really sorry to know about your hurting and frustrations, but I think you should look at the bright side of life (as in, he's gone and out of your life for you're too good for him...). I think maybe you should get some kind of professional help so you can come to a closure of your past relationship and try to focus on keeping it in the past....the past is the past and we all have to learn from it and understand the wisdom gained from what the experience brought forth to us. There are many others out there that you could hang out with while you're healing up and when the time's right...the right one will come along.

Suicide is not a smart thing to think about....it's really stupid, there are plenty of things in life that are more important than a previous cheating mate....YOU! =) good luck!

Answer 4

Well, here's what I did. I laid in bed for about two or three days. Cried a lot. (tried to kill myself too) Was around people but I didn't want to talk to any of them. Then I wanted to talk to people but I didn't want to be around any of them. Then I decided that I just needed to go and do something for myself. You have to take care of yourself. Just because some people do terrible things to hurt us doesn't mean that there aren't others out there that love us. I love you, no not in the way that a boyfriend may love you but as a human being who knows what you went through. It isn't easy, it's treally rough. Go and do something that you used to love to do. It won't make you feel better but you will at least enjoy it. Read, write, play music, sing, dance, paint, etc. Do whatever you love, but just do it!

Answer 5

Killing yourself is NOT the Answer, No one is worth you dying for, Talk to a counselor at school, or confined in your parents, friend but don't ignore it You are Depress. Remember Time heals all wounds, you will look back and say Man I was dying for that jerk, Stop calling him, stop stalking him, Get rid of his pictures, letters, anything that reminds you of him. Again Go to counseling. I will say a prayer for you.

Answer 6

Hi

NO MEN WORTH TO KILL YOURSELF. I AM SURE YOU ARE DISCUSSED AND HURT. THIS IS NOT EASY AND UNDERSTAND YOU. SOMETIMES, IF YOU KEEP YOURSELF BUSY, NOT DRINK AND GO TO ARGUE AND FIGHT FOR IT. DO NOT LOWER YOUR QUALITIES. PUT YOU DOWN AND LIFE IS REALLY WORTH FOR LIVING. I CARE FOR YOU AT LEAST YOU HAVE COURAGE TO TELL WHAT HAPPENED. THIS WILL GO AWAY BUT YOU WILL BE MORE STRONGER THEN EVER . BELIEVE ME AND I DO BELIEVE YOU THAT YOU CAN PASS THIS. GET OVER IT.. TAKE A TRIP.. TALK TO PEOPLE.. THERE ARE MANY PLACES YOU CAN CALL AND THEY WILL LISTEN TO YOU. I WILL COMMUNICATE WITH YOU HERE. WRITE ME HERE AND PROMISE YOU TO I WILL WRITE TO YOU .. I AM SURE MANY INDIVIDUALS LIKE TO RESPOND YOU TO HELP YOU GO THRU THIS. I AM HERE IF YOU NEED A HAND TO HELP. WRITE HERE AND I WILL PROMISE I WILL RIGHT YOU BACK. YOU ARE NOT ALONE. AND DO NOT DO ANY THINGS TO HURT YOU. LIFE IS VERY PRECIOUS, THIS IS JUST A TEST HOW STRONG YOU CAN BE.. TRUST YOURSELF.. YOU CAN BE BETTER AND WELL AND LOVED AGAIN. HAVE A CONFIDENCE IN YOU. I DO BELIEVE BOTTOM OF MY HEART THAT YOU WILL SEE DIFFERENT SHADES OF RED ROSES TO PINK ROSES AND DAISIES AND TULIPS AND THEY ARE ALL DIFFERENT. SO DO YOU. THINK ABOUT IT AND WRITE BACK. THERE IS ALWAYS A SUNSHINE IF YOU KNOW HOW TO WAKE UP EARLY AND SEE IT.

Answer 7

Move on. You don't need a guy like him and killing yourself is not the answer. I hope that you find someone better. If a guy truly cares for you then he won't cheat and I hope that you find someone who cares truly for the person that you really are. Good luck!

Answer 8

listen to some emo music and remember its down the street not across the road lol

but no dont do that just find someone else cause there is always someone better out there trust me

Answer 9

good question baby!!!! there is no easy answer for you, i am sorry to say. i live with it everyday. hopefully you will meet some nice people to take your mind off the asshole, go out with your friends and hang out with just the girls, they can get you out of the funk you are in by giving you their horror stories of their stupid men in their past. good luck and dont let some asshole ruin our life!! you are worth so much more than he deserves.

Answer 10

If you really wanted to kill yourself you would have seceded .You want help from someone,someone who understands what it is you are going through.We all have problems with our ex sometimes they just won't go away.
You need to calm down and say to yourself, tomorrow will be a new day and new things will happen to me.

Answer 11

move on,find a new and better love,no man is worth killing yourself over,there is someone out there that is a hell of a lot better and won't cheat on you.