theres this guy right, i dated him for 5 months and he was obssesive, possesive, and kind of controling. okay my sweet 16 is in like 2 months right and he wants to go back out with me, and me and him are kind of split right now. My best friend in the world asked me to be my date and he has a boyfriend okay so yea hes gay and my ex still has a problem with this. What should i do?? please help
2007-04-09 13:41:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just tell him hes invited but thats all its going to be. Dont go back out with some1, like that and if he gets mad becuz your guy friend thats gay wanting to be ur date well then dont invite him good luck. But seriously dont give him anymore chances hes already had his and he blew it big time move on to the next guy that will treat you right good luck and wish u the best
2007-04-09 13:47:25 · answer #1 · answered by CALI SWISS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch that possessive controlling jerk. I know so many girls that are in relationships like that and they just end up miserable. And they usually end up getting trampled on for the rest of their lives. You're still young, only 15. You don't need this in your life right now. Besides there are a lot of fish in the sea. You will find a guy who is attractive, loving and lets you live your life.
And as far as going on a date with your gay friend, I'd say it's acceptable, but only if it's for fun. sorry if these sanswers are not what you wanted to hear
2007-04-09 20:49:50 · answer #2 · answered by Chara Pointshot 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it were me I would not date him. If he was obsessive, possessive and controling then he has not changed now. You deserve better than that you are not his property or anyone else's property for that matter. We are all individual people who have our own minds. thoughts, desires, and feelings no one has the right to try to be that way to us. The only ones we need to listen to is our parents and God almighty him self. Love is not supposed to hurt emotionally or physically EVER!!!! You are lucky to see how this guy is before you fall too far for him and could not see him for what and who he is. Stay clear of him he will hurt your self esteem and will not be good for you. Good luck in this one.
2007-04-09 20:49:36 · answer #3 · answered by patricia g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him on his ****.Obsessive, possesive and controlling are NOT okay for any relationship, especially if you're 16. That's wrong wrong wrong. Do not go back out with him!!!!!
2007-04-09 20:46:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just go with your best friend and ask his boyfriend to come along and forget your exboyfriend because any guy who is too obsessive, possessive, and controlling can turn out to be a guy who beats up on his girlfriend or wife.
2007-04-09 20:46:52 · answer #5 · answered by jamaicaladydread 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are way to young to have a boyfriend that is obsessive, possesive, and controlling! Let him go and live your own life!!!
2007-04-09 20:48:08 · answer #6 · answered by Joy M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not date him! If he is controlling and possesive, he may hurt you (even without meaning to). Move on with someone else.
2007-04-09 20:48:08 · answer #7 · answered by ltlluci 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would let your best friend go, because if you broke up there's proubly issues and you don't want to not have a good time on your sweet sixteen. Besides he sounds like a jerk
2007-04-09 20:49:03 · answer #8 · answered by candy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This boy sounds like trouble if you're using words like obsessive, controlling and possessive. Stay away from him.
2007-04-09 20:46:10 · answer #9 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away from your ex..the only step up from what he does is physical abuse...which he prob would do considerin he already controls u and stuff...u deserve so much better, i know its easy to fall back into old reltionships, trust me i know, im sorta havin trouble with my ex, sleepin with him and stuff and now im hurtin from it. just be with your friends and take ur mate as ur date, at least he wont hurt u
2007-04-09 20:47:33 · answer #10 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋