2007-04-09 13:36:45 · 13 answers · asked by jenny_brys 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My boyfriend lives with his mom temparily since a small fire damaged his apartment. The woman on the phone was rude. I called my boyfriend the very next day after the icinent and he did not say one thing about it.
2007-04-10 00:58:15 · update #1
How old is he? What is his living situation? It could be a relative or a friend of a relative. It could be a roommate's girlfriend. Or it could be his friend, who happens to be female. There are too many possibilities. I suggest that if you do anything, you ask your boyfriend who it was.
2007-04-09 13:43:14 · answer #1 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can't jump to conclusions because he's staying with his mom now so that could've been anyone. You also cant let it run your thoughts either. Don't stress over something so little. If you call and she answers and is rude once again, ask him non chalantly, "So I called you your moms for you and some lady answered the phone and she was pretty rude, who was that?" Give him a chance to answer, it might be just a relative.
2007-04-17 18:47:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T JUMP TO CONCLUSIONS. First, find out who she was (in a casual voice tone). Then, give your boyfriend plenty of opportunity to explain without making him feel like he's being interrogated. HEAR what he says, don't hear what you are afraid to hear. Then make a conclusion based on what you get out of the situation. If you jump the gun and accuse him when it was simply a female friend or relative, you will lose his trust.
2007-04-09 20:41:17 · answer #3 · answered by sar6bear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him. Break up if he has no good explanation. She would have to be pretty comfortable to answer the phone. So she is either a close friend or relative ( in which case you should know about her) or he is playing you.
2007-04-09 20:41:42 · answer #4 · answered by Style Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't jump into conclusion, If you still haven't meet the parents, try to talk to him and ask why the person that picked up was that upset.
2007-04-17 20:33:30 · answer #5 · answered by keeperc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him who it was and why the person is so weird. Might be a funny story. He may not even know you called.
2007-04-17 19:46:53 · answer #6 · answered by lazandsilk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was you I would just simply ask him about it. I doubt he is cheating because he would have never let the girl answer. It may have been his mother or one of her friends. I wouldn't worry about it and just confront him on it maturely.
2007-04-17 19:39:17 · answer #7 · answered by James G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why'd you let him off the hook? Obviously you want to know who this woman was. You should ask him about it, other wise, you know it's going to drive you nuts.
2007-04-17 18:18:13 · answer #8 · answered by sustasue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dotn get it ! u knwo he lives with his mama now why do u need an expmanation for the woman voice!
2007-04-17 20:25:22 · answer #9 · answered by shereen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him about it first, could have been a female relative.
2007-04-09 20:40:23 · answer #10 · answered by licydechorerra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋