what should i do in this situation, i am blind, should i leave him or should i stay?

Question

Should i stay with him or should i leave?

i am 22 and i am dating this guy that i really like, but the problem is ....after dating for 4 months he told me that he will never marry me and that eventually we will have to break up......he really likes me and he treats me nicely but the fact that he wont marry me scares me away.........and its not like i wanna marry him any time soon, but at least i would like to have an option that if we last long we are heading somewhere........in fact i would like to get married in my late 20s (like 28 or 29) so i am not looking for marriage now.........but it kind of bites me that there is not even an option , you know what i mean???
i am having a good time with him now, but i am in doubt should i keep on dating him or leave him???
and if i stay, does it make me look like a whore?? thats the least that i want

Answer 1

Leave because from the sounds of it your with him out of insecurities more then love. Think of it this way in a 50/50 relationship he would have to explain pretty well why he feels that it shouldn't turn to marriage, why it won't work, why he doesn't see a future with you, and why he is still with you avoiding letting you get what you deserve, namly a man who well be with you forever. Now if it was 75/25 on your side, you would of told him, be gone, I just want you for an f buddy anyways tell something else comes along that I feel like being with. Now that its 25/75 on his side, he told you that he doesn't want to get married and just wants an f buddy tell something else comes along that he feels like being with thats not you. So hunnie you've been dissed. I mean in a nice way! But he owes you more then no options, he owes you a gush darn good reason, enough so that you can go and live your life, not this string you along bs, its not compassion, its just how you would treat your dog you plan on getting rid of when you find one you can deal with better. In other words this isn't a nice mature relationship... sorry love can blind anyone, its done it to me!