I have ALWAYS admired those couples who meet when they are young teenagers, and stay together forever. I want that SO bad in life. I only have one "childhood". I want sooo badly to meet my "mr.right" right now, and stay together forever.
Do you think that, since this is a huge life ordeal that i truely honestly want with all my heart, will it happen??
My biggest problem is all the drama in modern society.
I am with a GREAT guy right now, [been together 6 months] but i am only his 1st gf, (he is my 2nd bf) so i doubt this will work out due to curiosity. But we--for 6 months straigh--seem soo perfect.
What do you think??
2007-04-09 13:19:09 · 18 answers · asked by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I want this more than anything in life.
2007-04-09 13:20:10 · update #1
Stop trying to make your future fit the way you want it to. You are sure to have much disapointment. None of us can guess what will be best. Just make sure you are in a happy respectful relationship with who ever you choose. Don't rush things. Relax. You need to ignore the drama of society. I did.. My guy is 21 and I am 43. I stay out of the drama and live MY life the way that makes me happy! Don't waste time on a bad relationship. Find a great one!
2007-04-09 13:31:27 · answer #1 · answered by openminded 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't believe already that this relationship will last.
You already made up your mind. Big mistake.
Don't you know the term High School sweethearts? I know a whole lot of them. They got married, some are still together, some are 3x divorced with lots of troubles.
There ain't any norm or rule of how many gf or bf you have to go through to be able to retain your spouse.
It's up to everyone's ability to tolerate each other little faults.
Nobody's perfect and if you don't like that he burbs, snore, eat with open mouth... now, what do you think you'll do in fifty years? You won't be able to be anywhere around him. Because I'll tell you a little secret right now. You think that he'll change to be better.
He won't! He will stay still the same pig you know him as now and he might put a some mask for you for a while. But it won't last.
2007-04-09 20:45:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have got to be kidding. If you pursue this goal relentlessly you will miss out on so much life.You are correct you only have one childhood so why waste it on the pursuit of some childish romance. Trust me romance is better when you are older and you have the clothes, the money, the job, the apartment and all the other things that make you a fearless diva. More importantly you will discover who you are and what makes you feel inspired, passionate and fulfilled as an independant person. Once you know that you will meet the hottest ,most amazing guys around but that will come later in life.
2007-04-09 20:27:07 · answer #3 · answered by Style Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To tell you the truth forever doesn't always last "forever." Most of the time you find that one person that is meant for you in your life either in college or afterwards. Sometimes it might happen in high school but eventually you would be seperated. The fairytale life in many stories about forever isn't all its cracked to be. But if you really think this guy is perfect for you then I'm sure you will be able to work it out and stay together forever.
2007-04-09 20:28:54 · answer #4 · answered by babuprincess99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is like a tattoo you see, people change. People's attitudes and outlooks on life change. People's tastes change. If you get a tattoo at age 18 and you think it's really really cool, there is absolutely no guarantee that you'll think it's really really cool at the age of 28.
From what it sounds like, you must be to young even for a tattoo. And if that's the case, then I'm sure that you are to young to find Mr. Right, that usually happens somewhere in between your 20's and 30's.
For now you should learn about the opposite sex, as opposed to expecting to much from it.
2007-04-09 20:36:50 · answer #5 · answered by hey_finny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You din't say how old you were, but I know it can happen. I met a guy when I was 18 and he was 24, I knew the first time I laid eyes on him that he would be the one I married. He was and we have been married for almost 20 years and we are still very happy. We have 4 children, 13, 16 year old twins, and 18. Don't give up. It will come to you when you're least expecting it.
2007-04-09 20:24:30 · answer #6 · answered by ltlluci 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends if you both love each other then give it a chance. don't be greedy . don't think that you can find better one if your boyfriend respects you and loves you and he cares for you, understands you why do you want to rock the boat.
unless you do not love him passionately because if you where you would not think this way.
sometime we lose something either by accident or purposely, then when we realize wow what stupid thing we have done then it will be to late.
sometimes you wont get what you want, you just have to work on it in order to molded the way u desire.
my husband and I where boyfriend and girlfriend for 5 years then we got married now its been 22 years in total 27 years.
you think it was easy no my dear we both work so hard very hard we sacrifices so much, we compromise so much, the one thing that it kept our marriage for this long was TOTAL TRUST.
2007-04-09 20:33:34 · answer #7 · answered by not fair 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey girl
first u cant force anything in life, so be happy for what u do have (a bf, a family, friends etc that all love u).
second, i dont know why u admire people who meet in high school n get married young etc..lots of them just end up divorcing as they realsie there's lots in life they have yet to experience...
if u put ur mind to smthn it is more liekly to happen yes, it's claled wishful thinking..yet, careful what u wish for! i think u should focus on beign happy n grateful every day, take it as it comes as opposed to wantign to fit into this dream which doesnt mean much...u know?
live ur life as it is as it's best n u wont have to live nobody's dream but urs:)
gluck!
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2007-04-09 20:24:40 · answer #8 · answered by sakura 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never know, but I had the same thing from the time i was 15-18 and eventually we werent as interested in eachother anymore. But it has happened, both my aunties are still married to their high school sweethearts, and its been over 30 years for both. But just realize you have so much time ahead of you, you dont have to be thinking of forever just yet.
2007-04-09 20:23:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby girl ur watching to many love stories .It can happen but its a real long shot a normal girl will have 6 to 8 b/fs in her life. Till she thinks she found the right one...And then life is strange Things happen
2007-04-09 20:23:19 · answer #10 · answered by Millo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋