Can anyone tell me if this is fair? Any input is appreciated.?

Question

You see.... I have a long distance relationship. My boyfriend lives thousands of miles away in another country while I live in Texas.

Anyway, I'm the commitment type and I like to do things for him... but he doesn't or I don't know...
For example, as silly as it may seem, I get so upset when we schedule for me to call him and when I do, he isn't even home. I'm always the one calling him. I understand things are more expensive in his country and I don't mind that I'm the one who calls but... at least he should be there, right? Do I have a right to get pissed?

He's a great guy... but he's let me down a lot of times. He's all words but no action.

What should I do?

Answer 1

Understand words can paint a pretty picture on an ugly cavous, but doesn't gaurentee that canvous won't fall apart on you... in other words, words are words, actions tell you everything that the words hide. Always, always, always, compare what a person says to what they do! Its one of the first survival techniques you need to know when saving that heart from other people. That aside this guys cruel for keeping you in a long distances relationship know two things
One you'll comment to him no matter what because you've got a big heart, two knowing that a long distances relationship like this can't be good for you. If he had any compassion for you, he would of let you go... no offense I'm pretty sure he is a great guy, but so did hitler's friends... so realize that man can love alot of things... trees for instance, but that doesn't mean that one day that tree isn't going to fall right on top of him and kill him. So remember with true love, the love isn't near as important as the relationship being true, which is to say, good for you and him. So think if this is actually good for you, or is it just a distration for you so you don't have to love yourself enough to get a relationship that you deserve... because you don't deserve this...