I'm 4 weeks pregnant after having fertility treatment over the past year. and today i had a bleed, it eased up but i've been having mild cramps. i'm being sent for a scan tomorrow but i'm so scared. i keep doing tests to make sure i'm still prenant to make sure my hormone levels haven't dropped and all tests are positive. have any of you had this? i need reassuring please! x
2007-04-09 10:02:47 · 16 answers · asked by maddie 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Dont panic iv got two beautiful healthy girls and i had a bleed with both of them.i no how you feel the first time it happened to me i was frightened but the doc explained to me that it was just the egg moving and burying itself deep into the womb hope this helps good luck chick.xx
2007-04-12 20:03:32 · answer #1 · answered by deliciousde 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down Hun ... I know it's easy for us to say, but added stress will not help you right now.
Don't keep doing the pregnancy tests as your hormone levels would not drop instantly anyway.
I started bleeding slightly when I was 6 months pregnant, all turned out fine.
I know that as soon a we see blood during pregnancy then we all assume it's a miscarriage or something, but that is not always the case.
I wish you all the love & luck in the world xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Let us know how it goes .... I've got everything crossed for you.
2007-04-10 02:12:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can not say that I have been or going through what you are at this moment in time but can I suggest that you try and calm down I know it's easier said than done but stress and anxiety will not help you at the moment. Try having a nice soak in the bath with candles and soothing music in the back ground and try and relax. I do hope that every thing goes well for you.
I will be thinking of you tomorrow.x
2007-04-09 10:15:27 · answer #3 · answered by sarah w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing that you can do is relax! I have been there miscarried 3 times I do however have 2 beautiful girls. The worst thing that you can do is obsess! I realize this is impossible but you have to relax the stress is VERY BAD! Find a good book and lie on your left side, whenever possible. Read or do whatever relaxes you. Everything is going to be OK
2007-04-09 13:25:11 · answer #4 · answered by sydphie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a tough pregnancy too.I bled, had cramps and at my 28th week it got even worse. I don't wanna bore you with the details but I'll tell you this please DO NOT seek reassurance from anyone beside your dotors. Another thing I beg you to do is to STAY AWAY from all sources of stress. Don't worry I'm sure you will be fine. God bless you and your baby.
My baby girl who was 3 lbs at birth has become a gorgeous little 12 months baby.
2007-04-09 10:29:38 · answer #5 · answered by Malina 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i had the exact same thing at 5 wks. i had the bleed and next day cramps dat made me fall to the floor in pain. its an implantation bleed. i went 4 a scan at 5 wks and cud see the heart beat. baby now 2. all will be fine. good luck
2007-04-09 10:09:18 · answer #6 · answered by bonbondar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't panic and get all hot and bothered, just relax and keep your feet up. Have you been lifting stuff you should'nt have?
Your scan will reassure you thing's with your little bump are ok.
Spoil yourself, but don't do too much around the place.
Chin up sweetie, think positive
2007-04-09 10:15:28 · answer #7 · answered by pigeonlegs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bleeding early in pregnancy can be common so try and not worry. I wish you all the luck in the world for your scan tomorrow, I am sure that all will be well and in 8mths you will have a beautiful baby in your arms.
2007-04-09 21:49:44 · answer #8 · answered by thedaddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex wife had this problem when she was pregnant with our first daughter. Everything turned out fine. She had to rest though, so I suggest you do the same. Try to stay calm and take things easy. Good luck.
2007-04-09 10:10:19 · answer #9 · answered by Nexus6 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Calm don...try not to worry...i was getting pains and cramps when i was 4 weeks...but i got told by my doctor that its the placenta attaching to the womb...it causes crams! I hope everything turns out ok x
2007-04-10 05:08:59 · answer #10 · answered by Danni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋