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...before marriage?

Okay, so even if we accept that sex is for procreation only, and that only married people should have children, doesn't that really only deal with penetrative sex? Not to put too fine a point on it, but there are lots of other things you can do without issue becoming an issue - so what's the real issue?

Evolved or creatively designed, for the vast majority of people sex is extremely enjoyable - why would this be so if we didn't gain something from enjoying it beyond just the pleasure? For a couple in a (serious) relationship, especially one with a view towards marriage, isn't getting to know each others' bodies just as important as getting to know each others' minds?

2007-04-09 08:56:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture Religion & Spirituality

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The shame of sex from religions is due to the fact their version of 'god' was not a god at all but one of the Anannaki. These individuals were in that region mining gold and enslaved the humans to work for them. They thought we humans had sex too much when they wanted us slaving away.

There's NOTHING wrong with in in real life as long as its between consenting adults.

2007-04-09 09:03:23 · answer #1 · answered by American Spirit 7 · 1 2

The real purpose of sex is new life. How can life have meaning if sex loses its meaning!

Marriage is a bond of commitment. The couple take responsibility to look after each other and bring up their children. Therefore they have moral right to enjoy sex with each other. Not otherwise!

2007-04-09 16:00:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2 1

I agree with you. There is nothing in the bible that says that sex is a sin in itself. Fornication is a sin but marriage makes sex fair. I don't want someone else having sex with my wife so I decide to marry her. If I marry her then I should have sex with her any time I want!

2007-04-09 16:02:33 · answer #3 · answered by Nathan S 2 · 0 2

From a Christian point of view: God said it was wrong before marriage. God doesn't ask you to do something just for the heck of it. God wants what is best for us, therefore he has rules/ guidelines. You might want to check out these websites. God is not anti sex, He just has our best interest in mind.

http://www.horizonsnet.org/sermons/tc07.html


http://www.sbclife.org/Articles/2003/05/SLA6.asp


http://www.cbn.com/700club/features/kay_arthur-interview.aspx

http://www.holysmoke.org/sdhok/jp-sex4.htm

2007-04-09 16:32:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

nothing is wrong with it in a loving relationship. but casual sex and the break up of relationships is the problem. God intended us to be monogamous and stay with one partner.

2007-04-09 16:07:08 · answer #5 · answered by Mim 7 · 1 1

lust is the problem... you should love people and first appreciate and understand their value as human beings... it's very easy to overwrite the spiritual in favor of the corporeal which is what most people do (maybe not in sexual terms) but in other terms....

2007-04-09 16:00:04 · answer #6 · answered by think_of_the_bubble 3 · 2 1

Nothing at all

2007-04-09 16:00:10 · answer #7 · answered by Afi 7 · 1 2

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