what's up with him?

Question

this guy , he's a flirt, he use to talk to me alot-but i dont understand why if he's engaged. i went on vacation, came back and he was joking with me but it was not amusing to me-he said "i thought you had gotten hit by a bus and i said "i was in myrtle beach and then he said "wishful thinking" and he tattled to my friend that i said she hadn't clean something right, i dont know if he was just trying to start something.i told him to f*** off and he was nice the the rest of the day and the next day he couldn't even look at me in the eye while talking to me-it was like he was scare to talk to me.i know he's engaged and i dont want to come in btw his fiancee and him but i work with this guy and i want be nice to this guy and vice versa,like we were before-he always asks me for age and has made comments about my "nice tan" and lips what is he thinking? serious answers please

Answer 1

OMG girl! He wasn't being flirty, he was just trying to have a conversation with his CO-WORKER and you told him to f-off. Just because he's engaged doesn't mean he can't talk to any girl for the rest of his life. No wonder he's scared of you.. he probably thinks you're a biatch, and quite honestly, I can't blame him. If you're scared of coming between him and his fiance, maybe you have feelings for him? That's the only reason I can think of. I work with a bunch of guys at my job (receptionist at a car dealership) and I get hit on all the time by them. But it's in a fun way, and I'm confident enough to know that I wouldn't stray from my man, or come between them and their wife/gf/fiance.. whatever. The damage was done when you told him to f-off (which was completely unnecessary). I don't think there really is anything you can do now..

Answer 2

he's just goofing with you. why would you think you'd get between him and his fiance? he's not in love with you he's just talking. get over yourself.