My boyfriend and I were living together for 7 months. I wrote him and e-mail the other day asking him what it is that he wants (i.e. to be friends, or remain boyfriend/girlfriend), and he told me to my face that he still wanted us to be together. Then two days later, he says that we are still best friends but not together. I was in a five year relationship prior to him (whom I have a beautiful 2 1/2 yr. old daughter from), but after investing so much into my ex and the current boyfriend, I just can't do it anymore. My current boyfriend has always accepted my little girl, but the issure is I feel like he just wants to be a bachelor forever.
2007-04-09 08:02:14 · 5 answers · asked by raiyn4502 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All men are not like this. It sounds like you want a serious relationship, and maybe even marriage. Who can blame you? With a young child involved, you don't have time for a guy who just wants a casual fling. Tell him exactly what you want, and if he doesn't want the same...its time to move on.
2007-04-09 08:07:49 · answer #1 · answered by Rosey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, You were living together for 7 months and someone felt that was a mistake...You move out. How can anyone go one step backwards expecting it to jump forward to a place it was once? Then to send a EMAIL asking him what he want's is so impersonal....The thing is is he seems to be moving forward even though he sounds confused. Because he is confused and has boubts about you and the relationship should tell you you have to move on. You are thinking for your daughter now it is not about you anymore. Good luck...
2007-04-09 08:10:13 · answer #2 · answered by city girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its kind of hard on us guys because most of the time women can't handle the truth.The truth is women out number men depending on where you live 10-1.Now I ask you who are the other 9 females doing?
2007-04-09 08:09:01 · answer #3 · answered by KING DAVID 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men will say anything to avoid drama. Some men will say anything to get in your..good graces (*ahem*).
Age doesn't make a difference for either of those things.
2007-04-09 08:06:35 · answer #4 · answered by Kaia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys like sex!!!!! thats all there is to it, and most of us will do anything to get it, when we dont get it we will go to desperate measures to get some more
so girls remember this when u turn us down, its like telling us to go find someone else for the night and when u do it again we go back to the other girl
2007-04-09 08:07:50 · answer #5 · answered by TJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋