I have been with my boyfriend now for about 8 months. I was going though his wallet a few months back and found pictures flipped over and they were of his ex from like 2-3 years ago! The were kind of worn and you could not realy read what was on them anymore. The pictures themself were also really smudged. I also found his high school locker number and combo written down in there too....but he is 24 and graduated from high school 7 years ago. Do you think he still has feelings for her? Or do you think because they are flipped over he just forgets about them? There was also a prom picture and he didn't even remember who the people were at first.
2007-04-09 05:05:59 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
old girlfreinds are like old cars
nothin to worry about
2007-04-09 05:13:56 · answer #1 · answered by Cash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly by the way it sounds he just needs to clean out his wallet more often. I mean who keeps stuff like a locker combinations. I think it has been in there for so long that he forgot about it. But it also sounds like you are searching for incriminating evidence of some sort. Who looks through someone Else's wallet.
2007-04-09 05:16:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If they were flipped over and he had his locker combo in there then you probably could have taken them out and tore them up without him ever even noticing. It'd be alot different if they were in a place that he came across on atleast a weekly basis. You've got nothing to worry about. The pictures shouldnt affect you at all, they are memories- but theyre ones that he obviously doesnt choose to revisit very often. So your boyfriends off the hook with this one.
2007-04-09 05:10:32 · answer #3 · answered by LilMiss143 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Down kemusabi! Down girl, take it easy! Believe your guy he probably forgot them and if there is a highschool thing in there he just doesnt ever clean out his wallet no biggy dont get upset tell him that theres a bunch of junk in there he needs to clean out or offer to do it for him OR the better idea BUY him a new wallet and call it a "just because" gift. Then he'll use it and if the puts the same pictures in there thats when you confront him until then dont over react
2007-04-09 05:10:06 · answer #4 · answered by *Heather* 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I was on his side until the prom thing, I am pretty sure he could come up with the names or at least personality trates of those people... as far as the wallet... if everything else feel fine, it is fine, I got junk like that that I dont have a clue wher it is, and if my g/f found it and flipped, I wouldnt understand it either, but thanks for the reminder that that kind of stuff is importaint to get rid of.
2007-04-09 05:11:01 · answer #5 · answered by Joel 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like he is a wallet pack rat. My husband never cleans out his wallet unless its so full that it becomes uncomfortable for him to sit with it in his pocket!
He probably did forget the pics were there. If he still had feelings for her, they would have been kept in better condition.
2007-04-09 05:15:23 · answer #6 · answered by Melanie J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, first of all you invaded the man's privacy by going through his wallet. That's a no no. Now as for him having his ex 's pictures, that's normal. Many people have pictures of their ex's. I still do. It doesn't mean I'm still in love with them. I appreciate the time we spent together but I have no intentions of going back with any of them. The romantic part of our relationship is over but I still value them as people. My question is: Where are your pics in comparison to hers. Chances are he just didn't get around to moving them to another location.
2007-04-09 05:14:33 · answer #7 · answered by Just Because 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'll have to agree with Becky W on this.
There is a good chance he doesn't have feelings for her at all, he's just too lazy to clean out his wallet.
There is a good chance they are smudged/worn out because he wallet has been washed a few times with the picts still in there.
2007-04-09 05:10:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am going to be 100% honest with you and you might not like my answer. Fist of all you don't seems secure in your relationship to go digging through your mans wallet does he even know that you did that, I bet he would be mad if he knew. Here's my advice to you don't live in the past you are his present and hopefully his future so don't let snooping mess it up.
2007-04-09 05:15:19 · answer #9 · answered by honeyluvdae 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you shouldn't be going through his wallet. I understand, I used to do that stuff too, but it never helps. He's with you now. Try not to snoop or be jealous. My ex still carries a picture of me and we've been divorced for 18 yrs. And believe me, he isn't interested in me anymore.
2007-04-09 05:12:05 · answer #10 · answered by Dianne 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why are you going through his wallet? are you that insecure?
Your only dating this is his wallet/ I'm married and don't even go in my husbands wallet. Think you need to know the word boundaries.
2007-04-09 05:12:46 · answer #11 · answered by loving U 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋