When do i tell her and how do u think she will react it hasnt gotten really serious weve been on four dates bu theres a lot of potential
2007-04-03 20:48:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
But if i tell her now will she think that i just assume that im gonna get in her pants?
2007-04-03 21:11:20 · update #1
I would wait for a while until you know for sure things will get sexual soon....and tell her slowly and explain what it is....make sure you get yourself treated ASAP...as once you get rid of the flare up it will likely go dormant for a while...it is a very very common disease...and you will carry it for life, there is no cure...luckily it does go dormant
if she really likes you and you can present your research then she will stick by your side...use protection until your sure...but know that HPV can and does spread even through use of a condom...and not every person that is exposed will actually catch the virus...she may have already been exposed through a previous partner.
HPV does not mean your dating life is over....you can still have sex, and have children.......if she truly cares for you the HPV wont matter
2007-04-04 04:30:52 · answer #1 · answered by JLee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had HPV ever since my boyfriend and I got together 5 years ago. Not sure if I have it anymore because after a year or two, your body gets rid of it naturally
You should tell her about it though before you have sex.. and use condoms for a while until you test negative for it. HPV can be prevented simply by using a condom
There are THOUSANDS of different types of HPV out there, and most of them are just dormant and you never see a wart at all.
I would have never known I had it until I got my papsmear, because neither one of us showed any symptoms
HPV is a scary word though, so you might have to download some information over it and SHOW her what it is so she doesnt get freaked out thinking you have HIV
2007-04-04 04:15:52 · answer #2 · answered by Starlight*Angel 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't tell her until you and her are a little more involved. Definitely tell her before you two do anything sexual, but for now I don't think I would tell her.
I have had HPV for over 6 years now. I have told every single guy I was sexual involved with that I had HPV and I told them BEFORE we were sexually involved.
She might even have HPV too. HPV is VERY common. I've read about 75 - 80% of the world will get it at some point in their life. And, she might be really accepting and understanding about it. Every guy I dated still chose to date me after I told them I had it, including my fiance.
Good luck to you!
2007-04-03 21:24:13 · answer #3 · answered by Alli 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
well, get rid of them. externally use neem oil and turmeric paste for 1 week, then atomidine or thuja the next. alternate every other week till they are gone.
internally take 1 black walnut, 1 neem bark, 1 turmeric, 1 milk thistle capsule till they are gone, plus 3 months. They will not re-occur that way.
You should be honest and tell her. If she loves you then, she will get vaccinated and probably be OK. about 80% of people test positive for HPV anyway, so who knows, she may already have it. If she dumps you over HPV, then you didn't need her anyway. Look for someone who is realistic and loves you for you.
2007-04-04 04:43:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that you should tell her that way if she sticks by your side is because she really likes you and if she doesn't than you don't need her anyway! Plus there is a vaccine to prevent it so you guys can talk about it and use protection not just with her but with anyone who you may be involved with. Having an std is something that you could destroy you mentally and you don't have the right to give it to give it to someone else!
2007-04-04 01:47:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is a vaccine available for HPV, she may not have been exposed to the virus yet and now would be a good time to get her vaccinated for it.
2007-04-04 01:38:07 · answer #6 · answered by Scott J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her ASAP.it is better that it comes straight from you. And since warts is caused by a virus, it is contagious. You can have it removed surgically. Ask your doctor about it. Goodluck.
2007-04-03 21:12:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you think that's kind of evil of you.You should have told her the first time you start going out with you.Do not pass it on to her.
2007-04-04 08:56:07 · answer #8 · answered by La Tania W 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you have to tell her I dont know how but tell her in a private place so she wont yell out YOU HAVE GENITAL WARTS!
2007-04-03 20:55:20 · answer #9 · answered by kerrine 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋