Recently my husband discovered that he had a diabetes. Although he is now trying to maintain a healthy life, I, myself, as his wife, am worrying about his future.
2007-03-31 14:02:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Diabetes
Don't be a pessimist, be a realist. Having diabetes is no picnic. Kudos to him for trying to maintain a healthy lifestyle. Learn everything you can about diabetes so that you can be his support; he will need you.
2007-03-31 18:17:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
His diabetes is a matter of concern but it can be controlled through medication that is insulin or a proper diet and exercise of at least 45 minutes/day. A good walk is fine .
He must try to balance his carbohydrates with protein in his diet and limit his carbohydrates because that is the enemy of the diabetic. Now I did not say to eliminate carbs because you did need some to maintain a balance and it helps you in other areas of the body and produces energy.Make sure he keeps his eyes healthy and drinks plenty of water because of his kidneys. One of the drawbacks about being a diabetic I or II is the susceptibility to glaucoma. It is recommended that he received a regular eye exam once a year to make sure his eyes are healthy.To sum up :
1. Exercise every day
2. Balance protein with carbohydrates in an equitable way to provide proper nutrition
3. Drink plenty of water
4. Get an eye exam once a year
5. Make sure if he needs insulin he gets it
6. He must remain calm so you also have to be calm because the heart can be effective under stress
7. If he makes a mistake one day except for the necessary insulin make it up the next day and in this way you will maintain good habits that are healthy.
8. You are not alone for there are plenty of type1 and type 2 diabetics and there are plenty of people and information out there to assist you so do not be pessimistic for it does not help him and it can hurt you and him in the long run.
2007-03-31 21:28:02 · answer #2 · answered by Dave aka Spider Monkey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My grandmother lived for many years with diabetes (she died of complications from being struck by lightening). My Dad has had diabetes for some time with absolutely no problems as a result of the diabetes.
When you should worry is if he is not trying to maintain a healthier lifestyle. Everybody needs encouragement, not nagging. (My Mother nags). If he 'falls', find ways to incorporate that. Worry just really doesn't help. He may have more problems, but worry about them if they occur.
2007-03-31 23:11:48 · answer #3 · answered by CarbonDated 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Diabetes is a very managable disease, if you put your mind to being and staying healthy. It also has alot of severe affects on the body if not kept in check. There are many options out there now that make it easier to manage. Your doctor will help your husband decide the best route for for his care. He needs your support, and not someone harping on him all the time. It is his choice how he choses to treat his illness or not treat it as the case may be.
2007-03-31 21:18:39 · answer #4 · answered by Yo_horse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Education is knowledge . The more you know, the less scared you will be.
It is simply too hard to worry about death while you and your loved ones ARE healthy.
Subscribe to diabetes magazines.Go to a diabetes ed class.Both of you can join a support group.
Read everything written about diabetes in the past five years.
Relax.
Good luck
2007-03-31 22:14:51 · answer #5 · answered by Cammie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be very concerned. Diabetes can cause major problems if you dont keep it under control. Always check blood sugar, change his diet, follow doctors advice. He could end up with kidney problems, heart problems, and neuropathy. But if you do what you should, then it doesnt have to lead to all this issues
2007-03-31 21:12:32 · answer #6 · answered by doddkimberly 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋