Im a healthy 19 year old male, who recently had sex for the first time.
Allthought it has happend again since then i havnt yet been able to ejaculate.
I love my girlfriend and i find her beautiful, she makes me erect very easily so there are no problems there.
During the sex both times i wore a extra safe condom which is the thickest one they have, I assumed the reason i didnt finish the first time was because it was so thick and i have problems feeling anything with it on.
We have tried oral and hand with out the condom on and i still havnt come.
I dont know that the problem is she turns me on and makes me hard but i still cant finish and i want to for her and for me.I assume its just nerves, and feeling uncomfrotable being naked.
I can ejaculate when i masterbate but from the two times so far not during sex. Is there something wrong with me ?
2007-03-27 03:17:56 · 4 answers · asked by good guy 1 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
problem 1....you're with a girl
problem 2....you sound gay, so find yourself a guy to bang.
Do these two things and you'll be nutting in no time.
2007-03-27 06:08:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
no nothing is wrong and you shouldn't worry. some people take alot long to ejaculate during sex and there are a few people who cant ejaculate with another person.
I think it might be attributed to performance anxiety. Some people first time or so ejaculate prematurely or cant even become erect. I was the same way when I was your age. I couldnt ejaculate with my partner no matter how long I went or how good it felt. Now I have no problem.
2007-03-27 10:46:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Na men dont even bug about it i was like that 2 i didnt even bust until like my 6-7 time just trun on a flix and ull be ok
2007-03-27 16:06:41 · answer #3 · answered by portuguesekid2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No honey you are just nervous. Just give it time and keep trying. A thinner condom may help. This happened to my husband when we were dating, it did not last long. Stop thinking about coming and think about giving your girlfriend pleasure and don't stress. It will happen.
2007-03-27 11:11:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋