My wife used to be a nude model you know for top shelf mens magazines.
I love my wife alot, but this is churning me up at the thought that she did this. Its like something special has been taken away, and hate the fact that she was involved in this industry.
She is nothing like what you imagine these girls to be like, but I cant stop thinking about it and what happened, its making me so miserable.
I dont know how a women can do this - the positions the photographers make you pose in, and basically just being used!
I know there is a possibility that these photos could come back to haunt us too.
What are you thoughts, and how would you get over something like this if it was your other half?
2007-03-25 23:50:13 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its really understandable through what U r going, but let bygones be bygones...
I guess it happens to everybody, not the situation,
but the feelings through which U r going...
But U shouldn't make it a weakness in ur everyday life, but instead use it as a weapon to those same weaknesses,
and continue loving ur wife dearly and show to urself and ur ego that nothing can be greater than this love...
Good Luck and dont think that this has only happened to only U.... This will certainly help U a lot...
2007-03-26 00:00:54 · answer #1 · answered by nicky 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be delighted that you get yourself such a good looking wife. You must look at it the other way - u r a very lucky guy !
As for the "being used" - i do not beleive this is true. Eroticism ( on professional level at least ) is a work of art. A lot of thought and work goes into producing suck photographs, so u should not worry about it.
2007-03-25 23:56:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk to your wife and tell her how you feel about these pics....if you both love each other you will work through it...i know alot of these mags are tacky, and you may not like the pics she posed for...you said she was being used, but did she see it that way, it was a way for her to earn money....talk to her and get her to tell you why she did it exactly, that fact that she told you she did it at all shows she loves you and didnt want you finding out by chance....good luck
2007-03-25 23:56:52 · answer #3 · answered by deni 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My thoughts? Get over it. It's just a human body, not all that different from billions of other human bodies. Presumably she's more attractive than most, and there's nothing wrong with her taking pride in it - or you being happy with it.
Nudity is not significant in and of itself, it's just too bad that so many people freak out over it.
2007-03-25 23:55:51 · answer #4 · answered by Bramblyspam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be happy that you have a hot loving wife, you has a confidence to do that.
Definetly get over it , your married the thought should have never entered your mind.
2007-03-25 23:57:16 · answer #5 · answered by yuckaplant00 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assuming you knew this before getting involved, it's a bit selfish on your part to be upset about it now. Its the past. Let it go. You're agonizing over nothing.
2007-03-25 23:55:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
...you gotta accept she had a life before she met you.
...she had relationships and did things she doesn't do now.
...it's hard to believe you're just now getting around to being upset.
...focus on right NOW- does she treat you well, does she love you and respect you. That is what matters- not the past.
2007-03-25 23:56:42 · answer #7 · answered by R J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you shouldn't be worried about it that much especially since you knew it before you guys got married. if i were the one i will not consider it cause it is just a body it is not different from the other bodies out there. just forget about it.
Take care
LOL
2007-03-26 00:01:23 · answer #8 · answered by Daisy l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...... that is a very difficult situation you seem to be in and I really sympathise with you but try to forget it because you married her because you love her, u love her for who she is not what she has done. furthermore that is her painful past. We use our past to better our future. So plainly forget it and move on with your lives.
2007-03-26 00:01:55 · answer #9 · answered by Cate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all remind yourself that you married her knowing this and loved her anyway. Talk to her about your feelings, but I think you are being childish-this is in her past and you have to accept it as part of her, or if not...
2007-03-26 00:11:52 · answer #10 · answered by crackermelons 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋