I can not seem to control my grief. I wish to do more violence!
2007-03-25 23:47:08 · 12 answers · asked by Lynnemarie 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
What about a nice hot bath?
2007-03-25 23:49:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me that you are wanting help for what ever is bothering you. Please seek out some counseling for what ever is bothering you. No one should ever be in that much pain.
Violence is never the answer to your problems, it really won't make any thing better it will only serve to make your pain worse in the end. Not only that but there are those around you who care about you and don't want you to be in pain of any kind. They don't want to see commit any kind of violent acts since they know that it won't make it better.
You have already made a good start by speaking up here, do your even more for your self and get into consoling so that you can feel better.
Remember that every one from time to time goes through grief it is after all part of the process of being able to heal. Any one who has ever either answered a question or asked a question here, has gone through grief of some kind or another. But these people don't resort to acts of violence to help them through the problem, they get the help that they need.
Get help for the grief that your feeling, since as you say you can not seem to control (grief) it as you have stated. You are after all bigger and better than any feelings that you may be having. You have will power that you need to use, use it and get the help that you need.
Be at peace with your self and get some help.
2007-03-26 07:13:16 · answer #2 · answered by Cindy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seems like you're battling within yourself. I must admit, the pain and the grief can be pretty hard to handle. It'll take time for it to heal, but it depends how you deal with it and how you look at it. I highly encourage you to talk about this with a friend/family or get some help.
If there are tears, then it's a sign that you care, and may suggest that you are a good person. Try not to let this influence your mind or your rational thinking.
Before you try to do something....
Think of the consequences for your actions... whatever you give is what you get. Think... would this honestly make you feel any better or worse (in a long run)??
2007-03-26 07:17:03 · answer #3 · answered by Jess3e 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go for subtlety.
Exercise cleverness.
Find ways to take out your malice on people that are within legal bounds... and if you can avoid being identified as responsible, all the better.
Heck, if you find people suffering naturally though no fault of your own, take a few moments out to laugh at them.
Just carry on until you reach your limit. Most people have a limit.... It reaches that point where you start second-guessing whether you really want to laugh or try to help.... And by that point you shouldn't feel so violent any more.
2007-03-26 06:56:20 · answer #4 · answered by Nihilist Templar 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
And what is Soul telling you? Soul always tells us to be good, and whenever you can still hear the cry of Soul, it means things are not hopeless. Soul, the real you, is telling you something that your mind is trying to shut out.
The choice is always yours: to listen to Soul (the good) or to obey the mind (a part of the physical shell which you will discard at death). Whatever you do will elicit a response. So you can experiment with both: obey Soul for some time, then switch over to mind. See the difference.
2007-03-26 07:10:00 · answer #5 · answered by RAFIU 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Then stop telling women who ask a serious question that they are just a baby factory as you did in one of your answers a few minutes ago.
Start respecting others and you might get some respect back.
As far as the violent tendencies go, get help and keep taking your medication.
2007-03-26 07:18:44 · answer #6 · answered by Jack 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would recommend the book The Bondage Breaker. You can find it in any good-sized book store or any Christian book store. Many of us are under Bondage from sin and it manifests in very different ways. I was under Bondage and felt much like you did and more which I shall not go into. If you cannot find it, seek a Christian counselor or a Pastor. I do not recommend a Catholic Priest as they do not believe people are under bondage in this way. Usually they only believe that you are either openly "possessed by a Demon" or else it is all in your head and nothing is really wrong with you. Usually. I really hope this helps. I shall also pray for you.
2007-03-26 06:54:25 · answer #7 · answered by MICHAEL C 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Well, it's good to see that your religious beliefs are such a comfort to you.
The guy above me gave you some good advice. I also like the "take a walk" recommendation. Maybe make it a run, huh?
2007-03-26 07:04:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take a baseball bat, go to a car scrapyard and beat the hell out of those metals and glass. Trust me, it will do you good!
2007-03-26 07:01:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Go for a fresh power walk to clear your head.
If this is about you, you seem to be going a bit mad. Protect the 'mental' attitute against your own health and life.
Life is too short to cry for so deep.
When your life is to come to end, you'll realise you are the only one crying for yourself.
- talking from experience -
2007-03-26 06:49:58 · answer #10 · answered by Spark S 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋