2007-03-25 23:46:06 · 18 answers · asked by nicole_elise88 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Yes.
2007-03-25 23:48:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are u working and independent ? Have u thought of after moving out what will u eat and where will u stay. This is not the solution. First find out why ur mother is behaving like this. May be she has some frustration which she removes on u. Try to be a good friend to her and know whats the reason behind. U r 19 and if u cant solve her problem but at least listen to her.
all the best
2007-03-26 07:06:39 · answer #2 · answered by sweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwww I guess if she is being verbally abusive or physical there is a problem.
You can go to your local social services office, otherwise known as the welfare office. Now don't get all fluffed up about it. They offer many programs and you don't have to be knocked up to get help. That is just a stereotype. They can get you some classes and teach you how to job hunt properly.
If you are truly being abused they can possibly get you on section 8 and help you find an apartment.
If she is just being a Mom and you are trying to be independent, it's hard to say.
I did not come from a very good home either so I remember being 19 and in a bad home.
Good luck hun......Oh maybe you can move in with an aunt uncle or grandmother.
2007-03-26 07:21:00 · answer #3 · answered by OR 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way yopu would be treated badly is either your mom is a drug or alcohol abuser, or you are not nice to her. Either way, yes, find your own place and move out. This is the only way that you will have first hand experience on the cost of living. It might be hard at first, but you can do it if you have a job. Good luck..
2007-03-26 06:51:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel that moving out will help resolve your issues, then thats what you should do. but remember, that you have rent, electricity, water, phone line and internet etc. Is there anyway that you can talk to your mum and maybe communicate with her to figure out what is going on? how you can fix the situation etc? If not, and you do need to move out, contact your nearest welfare agency to get get assistance with money etc incase you don't earn alot. better to live somewhere safe then regret your actions later down the track. Try and talk to your mum though...she is the only one you have!
2007-03-26 06:51:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't know the details but if she's treating you badly as in abuse, be it verbal or physical, then yes, get out of there ASAP. My mother abused me until I moved out at 17 and our relationship improved drastically. However, if she's "treating you badly" because she won't let you do what you want to do when you want to then don't do anything crazy...Being on your own is tough.
2007-03-26 06:50:47 · answer #6 · answered by Kara 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like Kara wrote, it depends what you mean by "treats me really bad" !?
Living on your own is tough,are you still in school or do you have a job...?
If the bad treatment is abuse, than it is maybe time to move out.
What does your Dad say about it ?
2007-03-26 07:58:13 · answer #7 · answered by GBH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear. Your mom must always have a good , sincere and pleasing attitude towards you. Dont feel bad about her. You have not seen much of the world and relaltionships in it, you will realise it in due course of time.
I suggest and recommend you should not move out. I know, who I used to feel only 5 years back , when I was of your age. Be strong, courrageous and good to one and all
I am your Anita
2007-03-26 06:55:16 · answer #8 · answered by anita d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would move out if your mom is treating you really bad
2007-03-26 06:50:48 · answer #9 · answered by Justin M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well 1st of all your question seems a little incomplete try giving a detailed explanation of your problem then we can suggest if you have enough reason to quit your home.
2007-03-26 06:54:22 · answer #10 · answered by $unny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋