She's been in two long term relationships, both over 5 years and both guys took the break up really bad, resulting in stalking her.
Why is she prone to stalkers - is it her or her personality? What is she doing wrong?
2007-03-25 23:21:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe she can't give closure to these guys and that's why they're stalking her....I don't know that's what I heard happens when guys become stalkers
2007-03-25 23:25:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
If you're dating this person, you should break up with her so she can find someone who doesn't think she's at fault for the actions of other people. If you're her friend, she needs to find a new friend. Stalking is the stalkers problem. The person being stalked is a victim of a person with a personality disorder.
2007-03-25 23:32:43 · answer #2 · answered by J F 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You know there shouldn't be any reason to get stalked...it's just wrong but depending on her age she maybe playing games with these guys heads and breaking up with them in harsh ways ...but again stalking is a very serious offense and it's a no-no anywhere.
2007-03-25 23:30:35 · answer #3 · answered by Dodgegirl62 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Stalkers dont prey on certain types of people they just prey on people in general. Maybe she has had a bit of bad luck in the men department. But i'd doubt it is her fault.
2007-03-25 23:26:56 · answer #4 · answered by Kimberly S 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would say its her personality. There would have to be something about her personality to make a guy want to stalk her. either that or shes really good at what she does.
2007-03-25 23:26:41 · answer #5 · answered by *~ SEXY LOUISIANA CAJUN SPICE ~* 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
i have the same problem! my ex husband and my ex partner
they dint want me but cant stand the thought of anyone else having me.
in the relationships they but where controlling and both convinced that i was cheating and in both cases they ended up cheating. i think that they watched me to try and prove to themselves that they where right so in the end they could let go and get on with there lives.
they where both insecure and it may have been because i was vibrant and bubbly but they both managed to strip me of it.
is she of a similar nature? i think its their insecurities and men need to prove there right.
if it gets too much to deal with as it does contact the police and have a restraints order placed. it gives you peace of mind in a horrible time.
best of luck.xxx
2007-03-25 23:31:35 · answer #6 · answered by sweetiepie 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would call them unlucky. Some guys just don't take no for an answer. Don't sit in judgement of others one day you may find it happening to you.
2007-03-25 23:40:47 · answer #7 · answered by deb m 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She just finds bad guys to date. I attract weird guys that always cry when I dump them.
2007-03-25 23:25:24 · answer #8 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she has some very good stuff and they hate to give it up.
2007-03-25 23:28:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
All girls, since the guy is obsessed
2007-03-25 23:43:24 · answer #10 · answered by verosk33 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋