A couple of weeks ago I walk in on my housemate doing himself with one hand and holding a photo of me in the other. I was really shocked at the time but obviously flattered as well. However, now things are REALLY awkward between us, he hasn't looked me in the eye for two weeks. I tried telling him I was really sorry to walk in on him and that its O.K. I don't mind him thinking of me while he does it. But every time I mention it he turns red and leaves the room. I don't want him to move out or anything because he is actually very nice and does most of the housework for me and my girlfriend.
2007-03-25 23:08:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't mention it again, just try and go back to how things were before you walked in on him, let him get over his embarrassment and hopefully in a couple of weeks things will get back to normal .......and just keep it to your self that you are this young guys dream girl
2007-03-25 23:18:52 · answer #1 · answered by angie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have an advantage, something over him, and the only way he will get over this anytime soon is if you think of something to give him that will level the emotional playing field. You know he finds you sexually attractive, you know what he looks like naked. Now I'm not saying you should let him see you naked, playing with yourself with a photo of him, but you could do with telling him something about you that is personal/private. So he has something over you. Best not make it anywhay sexual, as he'll think you are playing with him, but make it something that you wouldn't normally tell people.
2007-03-25 23:26:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
blow him, he'll feel better. just get some drinks into the both of you and fulfill his fantasy. and then say you only want to be friends afterwards. it wil make things slightly less awkward because he wont feel like a perv anymore.
2007-03-25 23:25:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing is you did walk in on him......So just stop apologising and act as if nothing happened. He'll get over it soon enough. Or just lay him lol!!
2007-03-25 23:16:49 · answer #4 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should help him along next time. Tell him the real thing is better than a photo anytime.
2007-03-25 23:12:35 · answer #5 · answered by gone 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't push him to tslk about it, he will come around eventually ( no pun intended).
Or maybe if your interested in him, you can let him catch you "doing yourself" with a picture of him.
2007-03-25 23:14:10 · answer #6 · answered by D mon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe offer to help him out next time make a joke of it this poor guy must be well embarrassed
2007-03-25 23:12:32 · answer #7 · answered by steve738494 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The only way is to let him see you doing yourself then it will be even.
2007-03-25 23:15:37 · answer #8 · answered by Manny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The important thing is this : Are you interested in him?
2007-03-25 23:13:40 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE IS EMBRASSED ABOUT IT SO DONT MENTION IT AGAIN MOVE ON LIKE NOTHING EVER HAPPEN TALK TO HIM LIKE YOU WOULD NORMALLY TALK BUT LEAVE THAT SUBJECT ALONE
2007-03-25 23:16:35 · answer #10 · answered by mocha27girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋