i have just been married and i live now in my husband country very very far away from my born country...myhusband is a very nice and loving man..so nice he is ..he wants me to cook for his father...we live in a big house which is owned on a more percent of his father..
his dad is retired and has a girlfriend of 18 years together..
every lunch time i must cook for daddy....my husband is at work and comes home at 5pm...where i prepare food for that time..or sometimes he cooks for both of us.
i dont want to cook for his dad because he lives with his girlfriend at her house and why i should cook for him...His girlfriend could cook...
am i being selfish? or let daddy take a hike?
2007-03-25 23:02:00 · 7 answers · asked by girly 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
you are right!!!
let the girlfriend cook for the daddy
just you cook for your man
unless they come to your place for a dinner party now & then
2007-03-25 23:22:12 · answer #1 · answered by ausblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let the girlfriend cook for the old man or he can cook for himself. Better yet, tell your husband he can cook for you.
2007-03-26 06:13:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear, there is no harm in cooking for your husband's dad, if he is with you. Think he is your father and then things will work out smoothly.
2007-03-26 06:09:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anita Suranga G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have u ever talked to ur hus??
show correctly what u think... do not think about it alone. you need more conversation with ur all family, i guess...
Or, just try to cook for your father-in-law when you really want to.
With all willingness and happiness..
If you don't want to do, ok. just do something for yourself...
you are not selfish at all.. you are just 'standard'
2007-03-27 07:54:11 · answer #4 · answered by forever young 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends which country you live! It might be part of their culture, that the son (and his wife) has to take care of their parents! Bon Courage!
2007-03-26 06:07:37 · answer #5 · answered by chr_met 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant take it out just like that ...in just a snap...you can do it by trying to tell him that your quiet busy and lots of reasons .... trying to reduce it from every other day to minimise it till you find it comfortably with
2007-03-26 06:14:29 · answer #6 · answered by harriet_vane72 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cook for him budddy ....
2007-03-26 07:16:46 · answer #7 · answered by @LpHi!i 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋