we are for almost 2 years togheter!
2007-03-25 23:01:10 · 22 answers · asked by little_star 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
have you talk to him about it?Does he knows that you don't like it!IF he know and doesn't do anything about it,it means he doesn't love you enough...otherwise he wouldn't make you suffer!take care!
2007-03-25 23:03:24 · answer #1 · answered by sauvage 2 · 2⤊ 3⤋
You haven't been with him for two years, you were there, he was somewhere else. This guy is a player, he doesn't care about you, he just likes to have you around so he can get some when he can't get anybody else. Why do you let someone abuse you like this and call it love? I think you should reconsider this "relationship". The only thing worse then getting aboused for 2 years is getting abused for three. Have some self respect and love for yourself, he is never going to change.
2007-03-26 06:08:28 · answer #2 · answered by vampire_kitti 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sweetie let me make a suggestion... and I only speak from experience... RUN RUN RUN! Run the other way or you'll end up like me... In a relationship with someone you love and depend on so much that you try and pretend that the obvious isn't happening and when you believe that it isn't happening it doesn't make it any better because then all you can think about is when it was and when he was with her...argh sorry seems I have some pent up aggression about the issue!! Goodluck!!!
2007-03-26 06:06:26 · answer #3 · answered by victorialynn83 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Trust me, after 2 and bit years, i found out by bf had cheated on me,loved him to much so gave him a second chance. Then found out he had done it before, not after i took him back , but the fact that it happened, and that he lied!sowe are over. Trust me, i am upset and finding it hard cos i still love him 2 bits, but i know myself i can find someone who will be faithful, and i know u can do the same. DUMP HIM! he wont realise how much u ment to him, unitl u r gone. Goodluck.
2007-03-26 06:22:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i know how you feel. its so hard when your in love with someone and they repeatively cheat on you. im in the same boat but trying to get out of it. i have spent ages thinking and if they do it why are they with us? they cant be happy in every sence cos they wouldnt do it. why do we love them or do we just feel like we know nothing else and are scared of being alone and cling to what we know?
you need to tell him that enought is enought, show him your worth more than this and you are! your self esteem must be at rock bottom. you need to pick yourself up and dust yourself down and find the new you. go out with friends, fill your time with anything . the first month is the hardest. if you need to talk and any help getting throw this feel free to contact me and we can chat. best of luck. remember your better than second best!!!xxx
2007-03-26 06:18:49 · answer #5 · answered by sweetiepie 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't mean to hurt your feelings but you have chosen to put up with it and allow it so don't whinge about it.You know it but you won't tell him to stop because your too scared to be alone your a person that thinks they can't survive without him its sickening You shouldn't call it love cause that's not what it is. Love makes you feel good and proud and happy and cherished i truly hope you find it one day but you wont while ever your with loosers. good luck Please rethink your relationship cause its all a waste of your precious time and 2 yrs is nothing just dont waste 10yrs
2007-03-26 06:17:13 · answer #6 · answered by deb m 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I guarantee you, every genuine answer you get to your question will be,'Leave that relationship'! You keep hoping the tiger will loose its spots- girl stop dreaming and be realistic! Victoria said,'RUN'! I say- run faster!
There's a lot of fish in the sea(although at the moment your feelings lead you to believe he's the only fish).
Be strong and goodluck!!!
2007-03-26 06:23:46 · answer #7 · answered by Napper 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Poor thing.
This happened to me before.
You really want to forget him but you just cant.
Just think that he did something very bad to your loved ones.
And stop thinking about him!!
Though it hurts....it will make the love wear off after some time...
That worked for me.
2007-03-26 06:55:56 · answer #8 · answered by ReRe_Sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a player always a player.... you need to leave him. he obviously does not respect or love you. it might hurt in the beginning, but after a while, you will realize that leaving him was the best thing. there are plenty of people out there that would love you and treasure you. i hope you find happiness!
2007-03-26 06:06:47 · answer #9 · answered by sharrma1 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he's always cheating on you isn't the message clear to dump him. You deserve way better even if you love him. No girl deserves to be cheated on.
2007-03-26 06:05:50 · answer #10 · answered by PWD 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If he is always cheating on you why are you still with him. I know you say you love him but that is no excuse. He obviously doesnt care about your feelings. Move on!!
2007-03-26 06:07:06 · answer #11 · answered by Kirk Hammett 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋