Ok so here is the thing...my little cousin lived with me for 4 months after she had her baby (who is now 10 months) then she decided that she was gonna move and live with here bf (who is the baby's daddy) in dallas. But everytime she leaves i cry my eyes out! I miss the baby sooooooo much when she is gone. they come and visit nearly every week, but it still hurts when she takes the baby away again and again. The first time she left i didnt even get to see them and i didnt know they were leaving.....i stayed in bed for 3 days crying! its weird cause i know that she is gonna come back but i still feel like a part of me is being taken away. Is this normal? I was really attached to the baby before they moved i would watch her while my cousin was in school everyday......I saw them Saturday and the baby only remembers my voice but dosent recognize me, thats what really hurts! Help me please!!!!!!!!
2007-03-25 22:57:54 · 6 answers · asked by epena86 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It is always sad to lose someone that you love. You need to try focus on other things in order to get your mind off this situation. Ask your cousin to send pictures, and give you updates on the baby's progress.
Sounds like there may be something that you are not saying. Either you are a very lonely person, or that you can not have children of your own. Have you ever thought about adopting a child. There are many children in this world that would give anything to have a loving parent.
If you are toop young to think about children, why not adopt a dog? There are plenty of abandoned puppies at the kennels. They need someone to love them and care for them too!
2007-03-25 23:12:34 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is natural. Dont feel for these things. Always never be close to anyone in this world. whoever it may be. Dont give way to such feelings. u can talk to ur cousin in phone and ask her how is the baby. Once in a month u visit that baby. thats enough. If u feell ike seeing her use webcam and ask ur cousing to show the baby infront of the webcam.
2007-03-26 06:07:53 · answer #2 · answered by Raki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i can understand your problem the only solution to your problem is to go and live with them or tell them to live with you that would make you a bit comfortable. if you dont like this solution then you may have to forget the baby for a small period of time.
2007-03-26 06:06:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my goodness, i am so sorry! thats so sad. Maybe you should have a baby?????
2007-03-26 06:02:01 · answer #4 · answered by sunshine 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
awww.....you will stop crying hun...move closer to them if you can. : )
2007-03-26 07:39:25 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Mommy to 3 year old Jacob and baby on the way♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you will!!!!!!!!
2007-03-26 06:02:21 · answer #6 · answered by michelebaruch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋