Im a 17 and am a confident person ,trust me, but usually when someone targets me i quickly become offended and lose my stable condition is this cause im sensitive or wat?
its like i have two sides to me the confident and weak
how am i to keep confident cause i cant and it hurts
2007-03-25 21:58:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
I am sensitive like that too, I think that is only human. Keep your head up when you are targeted and remember that is it their problem and not yours. Pretend you have confidence until you actually have it.. people will respect you more. Best of luck, hun!
2007-03-25 22:07:14 · answer #1 · answered by jenny s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well let us not call it the weak side, but lets call it the more sensitive side, and it is ok to be sensitive, that means that you are more understanding about others feelings, and your are less likely to hurt them just to be hurting them. First of all do not say you can't, cause right there you are defeating yourself right off. Change that to you can. Keep it postive, it is those self doubting words that are messing you up. You need to keep that self confidents up. It is normal to feel like you do when someone targets you, and you need to learn to deal with that. Actually that is not your problem , it is their problem since they are the one doing it . You are making it your problem, and letting them get to you, and you need to just let it go, and just walk away, saying oh sure, anything you say. And laugh it off, cause that will get their goat, cause they are trying to show off, and get to you, if they think that they can not get to you they will quit. You need to work on not letting them get to you. There are times you need to react, but most of the times it is just them trying to get to you, cause they know it really bothers you, so you need to not show that they are getting to you; and you need to believe it, that they are being bullies, and that is not your problem, cause what they say, is not true, and so just hand them back their own problem and walk away, and you will fine that you will not feel hurt, or that your self confident, has gone down, cause you know that you are not buying in to their bull, and that they are just trying to hurt you, and you are not like them, you are a stronger person then them, and you know that others know that too. You do not have too prove to them anything, cause you are very confiedent of yourself , and what you know, and that you are as good of a person as anyone else, and they can go blow , but you need not to let that neg in , you need to keep your thoughts positive.
2007-03-25 22:22:56 · answer #2 · answered by Ladyofathousandfaces 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-03-25 22:22:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude . . I understand what you are going through. Its just that we sometimes are sensitive to the things people say. There is no0 set formula to follow. Like you've just said, you know you are a confident person. Just learn to ignore jibes . .OR the best thing you can do . . retort smartly . .trust me that makes you popular with the ladies too .. .
hehehe it helped me . . .
2007-03-25 22:05:03 · answer #4 · answered by blogman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read Bhagavad Gita and your problem is solved.
2007-03-25 22:01:35 · answer #5 · answered by ssmindia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋