my boy friend wants to have sex with me. i don't want him to do so.how can i say him.iam scared?
2007-03-25 21:49:09 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you do not want sex then be honest tell him if he respects you then he will understand you if not then call off. In the end what you are and what you want is more important then what he want. spartan
2007-03-25 22:20:37 · answer #1 · answered by Spartan Total Warrior 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey don't be honey in your all relationship.
The only thing which i girl could keep with her before marriage is the respect in all aspects, You know what i am asking.
Leave that ediot boy friend who is asking you such a ediotic demand.
If you will be scared in the relationships then your inner instict is wrong some where.
2007-03-26 05:33:17 · answer #2 · answered by RUBY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you r scared if u said NO he will leave you
that is good time to know that he loves you or he want to be physical with u for one day and than leave u
dear, love is not all about sex ( i think so) that is ok sex is on way to have love
i think sex is one way to have fun and enjoyment toooooo.
if you r not ready yet than u will not enjoy it
so u don't want to do it, just tell him and give him the reason too..........
see dear love is love if he loves u and respect your feelings than he will understand you and be with u and your decision
and next time don't scared of sharing your feeling because scariness has no place in love
love is free and endless
2007-03-26 08:33:37 · answer #3 · answered by sweety 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him get really turned on and as he is about to put it in scream these words loud - 'Elton john, George bush, Osama i want you. Trust me he will stop.
2007-03-26 05:13:05 · answer #4 · answered by axl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say it ..hiding your say will have him puttin up hopes n make it ugly...tell him how much intimacy you can tolerate...like if ur fine with oral then tell him to be satisfied with it...your in a relationship not jail...you have a right to abstain from it .even without a good reason....
2007-03-28 08:47:50 · answer #5 · answered by theanalyst 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How to say?
Just say "No", that's it my friend!
yes.... if he really luvs u and not just ur body. He will surely respect ur words & ur feelings. If he does not..... then I hope u know what u have to do.
Do let us know what happened. Gud Luck
2007-03-26 05:05:17 · answer #6 · answered by gsvirdi 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you don't feel ready to have sex and that sex is something you can't offer him. If he likes you , he will accept it.
2007-03-26 04:59:54 · answer #7 · answered by Sissy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Avoid sex before marriage!! leave him if he doesnt listen to you
2007-03-26 07:10:58 · answer #8 · answered by Toothsharp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is purely your call Honey. You can tell him that you are not ready yet and he should respect your wishes.
2007-03-26 15:17:51 · answer #9 · answered by the Tramp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and tell him how you feel....a good listener is very important....take things slowly with him so you are comfortable....
2007-03-26 04:59:11 · answer #10 · answered by chaminda l 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋