And if so, WHAT kind of games?
What is your experience with this?
And yes, I am starting to have the feeling that my ex is just playing games to see if I still have feelings for him, I just can't explain it so well...
2007-03-25 21:48:40 · 11 answers · asked by purringout 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am not playing THE game with him (ladies and gents: not all women or men or the same, thank you) just that he keeps on coming to my work and then sometimes when he is there, he acts as if he doesn't care about me but then sometimes he acts all desperate and acts as if he hasn't seen me in years, and it just confuses me.
2007-03-25 21:59:27 · update #1
Wait a min... or he does act like he doesn't care about me but then acknowledges me anyway... btw I work in a bank to give you an idea.
2007-03-25 22:00:04 · update #2
yeah they do
2007-03-25 21:52:45 · answer #1 · answered by Ms.pretty : ) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, there are guys that will mess with their ex-girlfriend's heads. Sometimes they want to know if the have chance to get back together. But others are just messing so they can exert that little bit of control.
As for what kinds of games: Often something that will make you jealous, like dating one of your friends, or going to "your special place" with a new girl.
Guys that do this are usually insecure control freaks. If you ex is doing this, you're probably better off without him.
2007-03-25 21:58:33 · answer #2 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not really the ones who do play games are actually trying to get you in the sack again without the requirement for a relationship. They miss the physical side, so they try find out if they still have a chance with you, which is percieved as emotional games.
2007-03-25 21:54:00 · answer #3 · answered by Krishnan2784 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I am in that situation too .My ex is playing games with me like passing on information about himself to our mutual friends, trying to make me jealous with his so called new girl etc. I feel very irriitated and jealous too. I really dont know why he cant be more upfront about his feelings rather than doing these stupid things.
2007-03-25 21:56:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes because they are insecure and need that pick me up from feeling like they were cared about at one point. Calling you, seeing "how you are doing", checking your status as far as single or not etc. It all boils down to him being an a@@ unless he is really remorseful and really wants to patch things up. Don't inflate his ego, otherwise. Someone else's job. Not yours anymore.
2007-03-25 21:56:06 · answer #5 · answered by ehlonader 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL..i feel ya..i had a weird ex once:)
So we broke up....he broke up with actually...he was very jelous type....anywayz.....i didnt really want to brake up cause i really like that guy...but..it happens...and you have to move on.....
So.....
I meet another guy..and seems so nice and everything..and we v been out couple times..and he starts acting very curious...sooo...when was the last time you had a boyffriend....wut was he like...do you still like him...why did you break up...how do you feel about it...and blah blah blah....
I mean i know people can be curious but not like this.....so it made me think that something wrong.......and then later on one of my friends saw that guy with my ex...talking .....which made me think....if he knows my ex that means he knows answeres to all those questions that he was asking me...which made me think that they were playing the game.....
So.....i desided to be a smart ***.......i started crying how much i miss my ex...to my new boyfriend..and that i want him back no matter wut and blah blah blah.....
So....same evening my ex calls me on my phone...which is weird cause he didnt call ..not a single time after we broke up and tell se that he wants to see me...so i desided....
I called him next day and told him to meet me in the cafe in half an hour...and then i called other guy and told him to meet me the same place i was going to meet my ex.....so time came....LOL....it was sooo fun..my ex was trying to pretend that they dont know each other...so...basicly..i told that that if they like mind game so much they should date each other and i left:)
Sooo....just ingnore everytihng....he is your EX......which means he is in the past and its time for you to move on with your life...meat someone new and special:)!!!!!
2007-03-25 22:01:23 · answer #6 · answered by Damask Rose 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys generally DO NOT DO THIS.
He is either interested or he is not.
THIS IS THE GAME WOMEN PLAY ALL OF THE TIME.
And as SOON AS THE GUY TAKES THE BAIT.
The woman REJECTS HIM AGAIN.
So, no.
He wants to be with you again, or he wouldn't be showing any interest at all.
AS I SAID, IT IS WOMEN WHO PLAY THIS GAME ALL OF THE TIME...
And I would venture to say, that you are playing him to see if he still wants you...
But, will you run away, when he let's you know this,lol?
Most likely...
BECAUSE, WOMEN LOVE TO REJECT THE MAN WHO DID THEM WRONG, AND THEY WILL KEEP REJECTING HIM FOR LIFE, TO BREAK HIS HEAT AGAIN, AND AGAIN, AND AGAIN...
THE BOTTOM LINE IS...
HE STILL LIKES YOU...
SO DON'T PLAY WITH HIS HEAD...
YOU EITHER WANT HIM OR NOT...
Playing this game to REJECT a guy again, or to get the last laugh is SICK...
AND WOMEN DO IT ALL OF THE TIME...
WOMEN CANNOT STAND REJECTION...
2007-03-25 21:54:43 · answer #7 · answered by Q&A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Y, r u playing da same game? That's probably y u r having this feeling.
2007-03-25 21:55:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok reverse the question ... do ex-girlfriends play games to see if the ex-boyfriend still likes them YES!! if one is not over the games are played
2007-03-25 21:53:47 · answer #9 · answered by scoobie69d 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I guess so.
Pretending that he has moved on
Asking friends about you
2007-03-25 21:55:04 · answer #10 · answered by chaminda l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course they do
2007-03-25 22:00:56 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋