I had been dating this guy for the past one year .. Yesterday he told me this "I think I could never have enough of holding you close....and admiring your body minutely".
We shared nothing beyond kisses and hugs but I guess im falling inlove with him. I never told him how I feel. All he said to me was that he likes me a lot. The reason why we never had and intimate relationship with him is because one I thought it was too soon, and second I was not ready then. But he seem to take it positively. Just wondering if he is still lusting after me or is he falling in love with me?
2007-03-25 21:41:16 · 12 answers · asked by julia1975 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tough to tell from your description. But if you go to bed with him now, before marriage, you will scar your relationship, dishonor God, and make it impossible to tell if he is in love or lust...until he leaves you for another whom 'can't get enough of.' Stay out of bed, follow the Bible's commands, and you just may find that you and he fall in love with each other for who you are, not how you feel.
2007-03-25 21:50:27 · answer #1 · answered by Lone Papa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys go say somethings for a reason (so beware of that) but he sounds like he really digs you.
If i were u i'd still take it slow untill u are 100% ready!!
2007-03-26 04:46:40 · answer #2 · answered by stevieglenwright 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel, Im sure he feels the same way or wouldnt still be with you after a year. Hes prolly just scared. Help him out.
2007-03-26 04:44:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's in love. If it were purely lust, he wouldn't have stayed so long. Lucky you! Good for you to wait too. Wish you the best.
2007-03-26 04:45:40 · answer #4 · answered by babbles 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let him have a feel of u, closely and he would fall for you.
both lust and love go hand in hand.
2007-03-26 04:52:15 · answer #5 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is LUSTING after you.. Sounds like a professional drama artist, using his psychology so that you will ASK HIM for it!!
2007-03-26 04:45:23 · answer #6 · answered by AdultMale 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Could be either or it could be both. You won't know until you get really serious. However I hope for your sake he chooses the latter rather than the former.
2007-03-26 04:51:20 · answer #7 · answered by Krishnan2784 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me tell u something....no guy that truely loves you tells u all the time about ur body.....
he is f..king lusting..and he will stay until he gets u...i had this done to me...my friend stayed for years to get me he never gave up.....
so becareful..the guy that never complimented me on my body is the one that i am married to now...
now that we are married, i am his goddess.
best wishes to ya!!!
2007-03-26 04:59:10 · answer #8 · answered by girly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be both........Men are the most perservering species. He can be patient and wait for as long as two years to get some ***!
2007-03-26 04:47:16 · answer #9 · answered by Angel 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like both :o)
2007-03-26 04:45:38 · answer #10 · answered by minerva_nz4 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋