there is this guy in my school but he loves 1 of my best mates, but he rings me and texts me all the time, he was tellin me things i didn't no about him? then i had an odd text message of his................ (u no what lol) so i asked him if he likes me and he said no so i thought nothing more of it (he's16 now) then out of the blue he texts me sayin "do u want a 3 sum with me,him and my best mate" what does that mean does he like me or is he just using me to get to my best mate. i've had bf in the past (20 odd of them lol)
2007-03-25 21:38:37 · 17 answers · asked by amy_baby123 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sex is not a priority save your virginity for someone special who will not abuse it.....respect and loyalty must come first in relationships.....someone who will have sex with you doesn't mean they like you......be patient and really look for the patient and respectful guys...
If you get pregnant what do you do?
If you get stds what do you do?
I don't want to scare you but having sex openly, not implying that you do, will put you in great risk....
2007-03-25 21:41:48 · answer #1 · answered by chaminda l 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
WHY WOULD YOU WANT TO ??? WHY IS HE TEXTING YOU HIS - Quote from you: "u know what lol"" This alone shows your imaturity discuss thing of a sexual nature never mind get involved in a 3some. TREAD CAREFULLY !!!!
Have you any idea exactly what he is asking you to do?
Do the words - AIDS STDs PID to mention a few!! You might be thinking - oh he is too young to have any of these diseases - but if he is putting himslef about - then he is at greater risk than most and clearly wanting to SHARE !!
As a mother of 1 daughter - I would urge you not to do this and to carefully review who you give your mobile number to in future. It might seem cool to be popular - but how would you like to be talk of the town for being easy. Up for anything.
You are sooooo young!!!! Enjoying life is not always about being popular - it's about liking who you are and having respect for yourself and your body.
2007-03-25 23:47:42 · answer #2 · answered by Roxy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG!!
Forget this ****hole!!!!You REALLY don't want to be interested in this person!
And tell your friend about this text so that she realizes the kind of person this boy is.
Someone who offers you sex CANNOT care for you!
Someone who really loves you, care for you, then you can consider them... and if sex comes after a while, when you really know each other and trust each other and love deeply, then it's entirely different...
Pure sex is revolting and not interesting and it is just abusing.Of course I am only saying this on yahoo answers and you may not care at all, but I know that you want to be respected, because that's what everyone wants ;)
2007-03-25 23:04:27 · answer #3 · answered by julia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Naive aren't you.
Turn him down on the 3-some (it's where 3 people have sex all at the same time) tell him he's a mingin waste of space and how dare he insult you like that. he's not doing this to get to your best mate, he's just being a foolish insensitive bloke.
Move on, tell him where to go love.
:D
2007-03-25 21:48:37 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Tickle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't LOVE your mate. He is possibly in lust though. Sounds like a creep to me. Just ignore his silly txt, and be there to pick up the pieces when he hurts your friend.
2007-03-25 21:46:23 · answer #5 · answered by Copper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ignore him, he thinks nothing of you keep yourself for your Mr Right he will come along, and you will know he is Mr right, you will probably have another 20 odd boys before you find the right one Good luck
2007-03-25 21:53:33 · answer #6 · answered by Janet C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Using you.
2007-03-25 21:43:00 · answer #7 · answered by BNP. Protect Great Britain 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's an idiot, go find someone who loves u for u, don't rush in to a relationship, take it one step at a time, have fun, and be safe!
2007-03-25 22:02:46 · answer #8 · answered by Vixx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you wasting your time on this guy.....He's a creep!!! Have you told your so called "best mate" that he's texting you!!??
2007-03-25 21:46:02 · answer #9 · answered by prettywoman 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
boys like multiple places to invade with their penises...
pay no attention. He'll return to normal around 70...
2007-03-25 21:42:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋