gets real emotional? On top of this he says he doesn't wanna never see me again, and he says he isn't sure of anything at this point in time. We were living together for about 6 months and we had been dating for almost 2 yrs prior to moving in together. When ever we discuss the issue he gets very emotional. Is that a good indication that he still feels a lot for me maybe even love (the kind 2 people have when they are in a romantic relationship). I am giving him space and our current status is seperated. I am still in love him with him, and this is probably the most dificult thing I ever done.
2007-03-25 21:28:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some compatible couples just shouldn't live together. I think a lot of great relationships would have lasted if the couples hadn't moved in together.
It happened to me once, I was with my guy for 6yrs before we moved in together, and after a year, I moved out, and we're fine now.
2007-03-25 21:32:14 · answer #1 · answered by ṡ๓υгƒєtt 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I WOULD SAY CUT YOUR LOSS. THERE SHOULD NEVER BE ANY QUESTION ABOUT HIS LOVE FOR YOU.
MY EX WIFE AND I WERE TOGETHER 12 YEARS THEN WE GOT MARRIED ..OVER IN LESS THAN 2 MORE. BUT I WILL ALWAYS LOVE HER JUST CAN'T LIVE WITH HER.
I THINK HE ALSO MIGHT BE WANTING TO SEE SOMEONE ELSE IF NOT ALREADY. YOU ARE WORTH MORE THAN THAT WHAT HE IS GIVING YOU. IT IS NOT EASY TO CALL IT QUITS WHEN SO MUCH TIME HAS BEEN PUT IN A RELATIONSHIP. AT THE SAME TIME IF YOU DON'T QUIT THE RELATIONSHIP NOW YOU ARE WASTING TIME THAT YOU COULD BE SPENDING WITH SOMEONE WHO DOES LOVE YOU! YOUR NOT ALONE
THIS HAPPENS EVERYDAY, IT'S PAIN FULL. I FEEL FOR YOU. GOOD LUCK ON YOUR DECISION WHAT EVER YOU DECIDE.
2007-03-26 04:44:39 · answer #2 · answered by james 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's obviously confused and it looks like both of you are not having fun. Don't pack your bags yet. Don't do any confrontations yet, instead date more. It doesn't mean you live together that you should stop enjoying life. Take it easy. Put the flame back on.
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2007-03-26 04:34:54 · answer #3 · answered by Leilyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he still loves you but isnt in love with you there is a difference and he is probably upset because he still has loving feelings for you and will miss you and your company.
Maybe its for the best, im sure you would rather be with someone who cares and is in love with you.
Good luck :)
2007-03-26 04:35:24 · answer #4 · answered by Nat555 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't love you but he feels sad to see you go as you two spent a lot of time together
2007-03-26 04:32:56 · answer #5 · answered by Sunny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He still loves you but wants you to feel like he does. He wants to have the upper hand, which you obviously have.
Perhaps he feels you aren't giving him enough love/attention and is trying to bluff it out of you.
2007-03-26 04:38:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's playing games with you. He is trying to make you feel like **** when he tells you he isn't sure if he loves you anymore. You called his bluff. Good for you.
2007-03-26 04:35:16 · answer #7 · answered by ginger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not sure what to tell you. but he must at least care for yu if he is acting the way he is. just be sure u don't get ur heart broken it is a mighty hard thing to replace!!
2007-03-26 04:34:14 · answer #8 · answered by stevieglenwright 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deep in him, he WANTS YOU OUT!! But he is scared to let you go because he is not sure of his feelings for you.. Separate for a while and watch his reaction...
2007-03-26 04:32:26 · answer #9 · answered by AdultMale 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋