Why do guys do this? It has happens to me all the time.?

Question

Whenever I am making out with my girlfriends at a club guys always try to grab us and join in. Its so annoying!!! Can't a girl get some lesbo fun in peace? I felt like kicking this jerk in the nuts when he stuck his tounge in my ear last time. Ewww. HELLO, I don't even know you. I mean I don't mind if they watch but just because a girl is having some fun does NOT mean any guy can just jump in right?

Answer 1

Oh yes, when I used to date women guys would treat it like you were somehow doing it for their entertainment. Tthe world is not about you OK, this is my sexuality I'm enjoying, I'm not putting on a show for you.

I was always much happier in gay or gay friendly clubs where that was less of an issue. maybe you would be too.

Answer 2

Okay.....
First, if you're going to get some girl on girl action in a public place that serves alcohol you're going to have to accept a certain amount of intrusion.

A lot of guys go to clubs to pick up women. But us men, being of fragile egos, find it very hard to accept that a woman is not interested in our entire gender. When your typical drunk, horny male sees two women making out, he doesn't think "oh, two lesbians. Better steer clear". He's actually thinking "Wow, those chicks are hot, I bet they'd do a threesome".

So, if he's drunk enough, or arrogant enough, he'll just wander over and join in. Because, he knows that you're both just waiting for him.

I'm sorry you have to put up with this boorish behavior, but realistically you should try to take your lesbo fun to a more private venue. Or at least one that doesn't have beer and testosterone on tap.

Answer 3

Some guys are so immature, especially younger guys. They fantasize about girls making out so when they actually get to see it for real they can't control their hormones. They think its an invitation to jump in and join in the fun.


It is so disrespectful and I would have given him a swift kick up the @$$!

Answer 4

yOU ARE TRYING TO MAKE YOUR ACTIONS MAIN STREAM MEN ARE MEN AND FOR SOME REASON THEY THINK THEY CAN CHANGE YOU BACK BECAUSE THEY ARE BETTER N BED THAN ANY OTHER GUY. Sad but true sorry for the cap locks. Anyway ya wanna have peace and quite do it where they aren't watching, and if it happens all the time maybe what you are doing is inapporiate in that place and at that time. I don't do that with my woman in public, thats between me and her, if you have something to prove or to show off then your going to get this reaction, it's not normal except for gay coupes to think that way.

Answer 5

Don't women just do stuff like that to mind f**k guys anyways? I mean it's an attention thing - look at me, look at me, isn't it? And though some guys give the attention by staring and drooling apparently some guys give it by sticking their tongue in your ear. Perhaps you could wear ear muffs next time? That'd be a sexy image!

Answer 6

its called disrespect, could you IMAGINE a guy and a girl kissing and some other guy coming along and sticking his tongue in the guys girlfriends ear. or vice versa, i think there would be a lot of fists flying.

personally I would have kicked him in the nuts.

Answer 7

You must be cute,this is common with the pick and play guys but kicking him would cause caos normally these guys are rude they ask you, when you reject them they get angry so just ignore him or go to vip lounges were its more queit and peaceful

Answer 8

By making out in a club you're looking for attention so I guess they thought it to be ok. Try making out somewhere more quiet and less public

Answer 9

Try going to a club with a vip lounge and have your fun in there. Less likelihood of loser mentality there.

Answer 10

You should have kicked him in the balls. You didn't ask him to join in, he shouldn't try. Loser. Yup. U have the right to kick him, u did not ask to be touched.