mail order brides?

Question

what is the thought on mail order brides I realize most women are mad about it thinking the man wants a submissive or subservient woman. most men I have talked to say it is because american women expect to much of a free ride (mind you this is only a small group of friends I have asked 4 married 6 not married) one even said american women tend to do what they can till they get the ring then do less because if they get divorced they get half anyway. another pointed out a woman and/or man who get married tend to do less to keep them such as the woman/man suddenly not going to the gym being romantic or even affecianate. what do you think the difference in mail order versus home grown is?

P.S. if all you say is the ones who order mail order are losers I don't even want to hear it. I want thoughts not stupid unwitty answers, or at least be original with it. use a brain cell or two their cheap.

Answer 1

I don't think there is anything wrong with getting to know a woman in another country, and marrying her.

Most of the women in the "western world" are so messed up, that it is disgraceful.

They lie, they cheat, they don't know what they want from one second to the next, etc,etc...

So, why not marry someone from another country who will stay by your side, and love you forever, and take care of the home.

As I said, the women in the "western world" are really messed up, and have no morals, or values, (for the most part)
as compared with women from other countries.

Stay away from the Russian women.

They will often leave you right away, and are only looking for a free ticket to get here.

Mexican women, and philipino women, are probably your best bet.

I know guys who married women from Tailand, and it has been working out well.

It is best that you visit the country that you are wanting to find a women from, and find her that way, maybe in a small town or something.

I want to do this myself.

Also, let people think what they want, you will not be a loser, when they see your marriage is outlasting all of their marriages.

BE TRUE TO YOURSELF, WHO CARES WHAT ANYONE THINKS OF YOU.

Be careful about sending money to women that you meet through the mail, etc

You should meet them first before you help their families out etc.

Some of them are "playing" multiple men and sucking every last dime they can out of guys to support their family,etc

This is why you should go and visit a country, (a poor country0
And meet her over there, then you know more about what she is all about.

I'm tired of the western women attitude,etcf, and am planning on going the "mail order bride" route myself.

The women over here are completely whacked these days, they have everything wrong.

They watch reality shows, and think it's o.k to cheat, and play men, and on, and on, and on.

GO FOR YOUR DREAMS...

Answer 2

Those stereotypes are certainly true. There are men who simply want a play toy that cleans the house. And bringing a woman from a life of poverty to North America can get you that.

But another aspect is that some men can't find the right woman here. And many of these mail order brides come from cultures where the woman does not have the option of ending a marriage. They're not used to the idea of just getting a divorce when things get rough. So it's a more secure relationship in some ways.

Answer 3

I am a woman living in the Western world myself. I am not happy that people have that stereotyped idea of women coming from poorer countries marrying Americans or Europeans just for money or Western men marrying them because they are failures in their own countries. People marry someone from a different culture for all kinds of reasons. I know many couples who are made up of a Western husband and an Oriental, Indian or black wife but in none of the case is the husband a failure and the wife a gold-digger. They are all in a loving and responsible relationship with intelligent, well-behaved children. I think it's very insulting to assume that all women marrying Westerners just for their money or that they will do anything to please a Western man in order to get a visa to the West. Maybe money and the right of abode in the West do play a part in their decision to look for a husband in the West but don't many Western women attach great importance to wealth or potential earning power when they look for a husband? I think Q&A has given a lot of good advice. Just like any women in the West, there are good ladies and bad ladies everywhere in the world. It's your luck and judgment that decide whether you are going to find true love from abroad. The golden rule is to be careful and not to give people the wrong impression that you have a lot of money. Be honest and don't offer financial help to the lady and her family too easily. If you are a good man, you will find a good lady somewhere in this world to match you.