Well, just wanna ask if i should stick with her,we had a 1 yr relationship and it was going well till she found a new job and had no time at all,always when i ask her out,she was not free but was free to go out with her friends.I donno what is the problem but is hard 4 a relationship to go on when we dont even meet up to chat and when i called,she will talk 4 awhile and say she is busy...yea she shown me that she is busy,should i be more understanding or should I just stick with what I want?
2007-03-25 21:16:07 · 8 answers · asked by Boring^Lif3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
btw I am a guy...i not a lesbian...=D
2007-03-25 21:31:17 · update #1
she is working in a travel agency whereby she has to attend to customers at desk...not as a tour guide but if she goes on trips,she has to do check in etc.
2007-03-25 21:34:29 · update #2
if you do not talk, you cant say u are in a relaltionship mate, let things be for a while maybe she needs time to get used to her time table since ts new, then take action, either
1) talk it out wit her and get used to her being busy and meeting less frequent , ( considering a 1 year relationship is not to throw away )
but if things do not go as planned option 2
2 ) find a new one
2007-03-25 21:28:04 · answer #1 · answered by manutd forever :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you talked to her? Sit her down and calmly talk to her, tell her that you are very happy that she found a great job but that you really miss her and you would like to work out a way for you to see her more often. This is the part where you BOTH have to be flexible. No offense to you, I don't know you, but I find that when guys say they want to work in more time what they really mean is they want the girl to rearrange her life around them to work in more time. If this doesn't apply to you then it doesn't. Maybe you could meet up for lunch if you're not doing anything else during her lunchtime, or you could make dinner for her at her house, or she could stay at your house one night and bring the next day's clothing with her.
I don't know what kind of job you have but if you guys really want to I'm sure you could work something out.
2007-03-25 21:28:55 · answer #2 · answered by vampire_kitti 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's up to you if you want to continue this. But you need to consider the possibility that she's trying to end it. She may just be trying to avoid the confrontation and thinks if she ignores you long enough you'll dump her.
Ask her if she is happy with your relationship, take it from there.
2007-03-25 21:23:42 · answer #3 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flip the script. next time she calls say your busy and see if the attitude changes.
2007-03-25 21:40:09 · answer #4 · answered by bigpumpdaddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront her and tell her what you feel. Clear up everything, just be ready with whatever happens.
2007-03-25 21:22:19 · answer #5 · answered by dale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stick with her if thats what you want. So she works alot you gotta respect that. If you want her don't leave
2007-03-25 21:25:38 · answer #6 · answered by primalterozi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her,is she still wanna stick with you?you know what to do if the answer is no.
2007-03-25 21:21:56 · answer #7 · answered by n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
face it honey she is just not that into you...cause if she was she would show it and you wouldn't be asking...she keeps you around cause you are her backup...but you are not her 4ever so move on
2007-03-25 21:21:33 · answer #8 · answered by nena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋