Ok now I love him soooo much.I love him with my heart.I love him sooooo much more than other people love their oyfriend.I love him a looot.I can die for him.My problem is I'm only 13 years old and I can't tell him that I love him.I don't even know whether he loves or not.He looks at me in a strange way that makes me think that he loves me too.But nobody can never love me because i'm very ugly.I can't forget about him and now i'm gonna die for him.What do I do??How can I tell him that I love him soooo much??I need help.
2007-03-25 21:05:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't really know what love is , What you feel at 13 is not love. wait until your 25+
2007-03-25 21:08:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Take your time. At 13 you have so many hormones raging out of control, that it makes a feeling seem even stronger and more intense. Hormones are like bad drugs at that age. I know that it seems so desparately necessary right now, but just hold off. I fell in love with my older brother's best friend at 13. At the time, I would have done anything to have had the chance just once to date him. What made matters more difficult were that he felt the same, but I was off limits to him (thanks to my DEAR *w/just a hint of sarcasm* big brother). It took 17 yrs for both of us to finally move past our feelings, but we did and learned that it is ok for us to just be great friends, so I know where you are coming from. You are 13, and despite the way kids are carrying on today, to young to be in such a serious state of emotion. Be his friend if there is anything more to his feelings then they will be there 3 or 4 years from now. And the stronger your friendship, the stronger a potential relationship will be. If you learn over time that your feelings are not what they seem, you will have the best friend you will ever know in life. And a good solid friend with someone of the opposite sex that you can always turn to for advice is by far so much better than a soured love gone bad. It has been 21 years since I met the man that I thought for so long was the love of my life, and today, he is my neice and nephew's god father and a dear friend. I am so glad that we didn't spoil a good friendship by grasping onto a relationship so early in life.
And please do not refer to yourself as ugly or un-lovable. You sound like a very nice and dear young lady. Even if you have flaws, there are people out there who will see your flaws as perfection in their eyes. There is even a young man out there who will one day look at you and see you as his picture perfect idea of all that God has made beautiful in this world. Our teen years are akward and we all feel ugly. But never consider yourself unlovable. There's hope for everyone I was 30 when I met my husband and he was 50 and missing 5 front teeth. But he is the most wonderful, attractive and adorable man I ever laid eyes on-wouldn't trade him for anything.
2007-03-25 21:35:03 · answer #2 · answered by picture . . . perfect 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was 12 I had a girlfriend whom I thought I loved more than anything in the world. Then when she dumped me I was crushed. A few years later when I was 15 the same thing happened, and I promised myself I would never love anyone again, and that I was going to be miserable for the rest of my life. I got over it after a few days. Right now you're too young to know what love is, what you are experiencing is called "infatuation." Go up to him, talk to him, you have nothing to lose, the worst he can do is say he doesn't feel the same way you think you do.
2007-03-25 21:12:13 · answer #3 · answered by FordExploder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me as you grow up there will be many experiences where you think you love someone.I thought i loved people i have been with to find out that it wasn't. It took me 15yrs to find love so sit back have a think and until you have loved many make no hasty decisions,you will find out that you will love one more than the other until you know who the one is.I am 32yrs old and i found love just over a year ago.Goodluck and take it easy also people who think people are ugly are the ugly ones inside
2007-03-25 21:14:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
babygirl... your only 13... yea u could be "madly in love" with him now but what if he's not (when u do tell him that u love him)...you'll be heartbroken so if i were i would re-think that whole statement that you'll die for him... no man really does deserve that kind of un-dying love unless they love u back like that.... but just tell him how u feel and if he says he doesn't love u... just try 2 move on trust me you'll fall deeply in love with someone else...
and 1 more thing u should always let the guy do the chasing, not u chasing the guy cause your beautiful like that....
2007-03-25 21:25:04 · answer #5 · answered by Smilez 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in no way. Unconditional love is a love which will constantly love an identical, no count what. instead of turning a blind eye to issues or situations, it prefers to attend and spot and understanding, and proceed loving no count what. Unconditional love won't be able to be earned or lost. Blind love would not exist, because of fact a blind love might require the bestower to love in adversity with the help of finding any incorrect way instead of embracing the priority and dealing via it, loving an identical all of the whilst, which in no way lasts. Unconditional love is a love that endures perpetually.
2016-10-20 11:34:39 · answer #6 · answered by leong 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can understand you feeling very strong for him but love is a big word to use, im 16 i had a boyfriend at 13 we use to say it to eachother but i knew i wasnt in love with him he said it so me not wanting to be mean i said it. it was a phase, this could be what your going through but if you really feel that its not, i dont think that you should tell him boys can be kind of scared things like that especially at 13. dying for him? girl thats to much unless he's your husband
2007-03-25 21:11:11 · answer #7 · answered by chanteezy B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey girl... cheer up.. i know what you're going thru right now coz ive been thru that.. your physical appearance was not the matter here but your age... and your too young to tell if what you feel now is LOVE or just an INFATUATION.... maybe what he sees in you was a friend that he can ran to.. but nothing more than... you think that he loves you too by the wa he looked at you because that's what you desire... you're misconcepting his actions simply because you like him a lot... what you are going thru right now was a part of adoloscenthood... you still have a lot ahead of you... just try to befriend him... but never expect for anything but friendship... what you feel now is what you call.. PUPPY LOVE... don't let your self drag in that feeling.... live your life to the fullest girl! and who told you that nobody will like you because you are ugly? who told you that you are ugly? you feel that way because that's what you think of your self... feel beatiful and you are beautiful... one day you'll meet somone who will love you the way you need to be loved.... forget about that guy your talking about.... don't be in a hurry to fall in love... you're only 13! live and enjoy your life! take it from me.... ive been thru that before... im 24 now and im happily committed with my bf now and we are going to get married soon,,, see what i was telling you.... okay? stop bothering your self.... forget him... cheer up!
2007-03-25 22:07:54 · answer #8 · answered by sky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...that guy must be very lucky to have admirer like u. Ok,my opinion is u have 2 make urself brave. Give that boy hint that u like him. U have 2 be more confident with urself.
2007-03-25 21:17:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ur obviuosly young & stupid so I won't say anything mean. Just try as hard as u can 2 read & try 2 learn from what everybody else here is trying 2 tell u.
2007-03-25 21:20:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋