I'm 13 and I have 2 twin-daughters 13-week-old.Being a teen mother is very exciting for me and I'd like to share that feeling with other teen-mothers.If any teen-girl (mother) wants a friend in similar condition,advice or help feel free to message me.My name's Mary-Kate and I live in Miami.
2007-03-25 20:53:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
don't let these people get to you i was 14 when i had my kid and you know what I WAS THE ONE RAISING HIM NOT MY PARENTS and i did just fine i am now 17 and had my 2nd child 6 months back both healthy and i am still with there father we are married i have finished school and will start nursing school this fall when I'm 18. all you people that say Tenn mom are children have you ever stopped to think that more teen moms are keeping there kids nowadays and raising beautiful children that are Happy and healthy, not all of us are immature, i have known some girls as you say that are more mature then women of the ages 20 and up. we maybe be young but when kids get our age who can relate with them better someone that's 40 or someone closer to there age? someone that's been Thur it not to long ago or someone that was a teen in the 60? a lot has changed since them, oh and if your wondering i do not live with my parents, i do not live with his parents, we have our own house and he's in the army and were doing just fine our kids are happy and healthy
2007-03-29 15:33:43 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs. CuTT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to be very careful about glalmorizing being a teen mom. I dont care how exciting u think it is to be a teen mother most CHILDREN who are 13 yrs old are not ready to be a teen mother and they dont need someone telling them how great it is because the only thing girls who are 13 should be worrying about is what dress they are going to wear to the next school dance. I bet in six months you will feel totally different unless its actually your parents raising those babies.
2007-03-29 06:52:50 · answer #2 · answered by pickletbug 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh My Goodness, a child bringing up two children i just hope for your sake you have a lot of help and support, and i have to say you have asked the same question twice is it because people are telling you in this set of questions things you don't want to hear and in the other they are telling you its great and wonderful PLEASE, i have twins and 8 years ago i NEVER had a computer how do you have the time to be on here i wish i had back then !
2007-03-26 00:26:32 · answer #3 · answered by Autism's Beautiful Face 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i imagine women human beings's rights have come a ways, and at the same time as a life like man or woman sees a teenager mom they assume she has wrecked her destiny. they could also assume she is unwed and could no longer proceed her preparation, perhaps even "suck off the welfare equipment". This, like quite a few assumptions, is by no potential ever the case. there are countless youthful moms who proceed their preparation, perhaps even pursue it more suitable ambitiously because they comprehend they have a baby to financially help. Unwed? perhaps. yet do we extremely choose children marrying the daddy of their toddler? no longer extremely. that's a damned in case you do, and damned in case you don"t situation. we would criticize a fragile married mom for rushing right into a wedding ceremony only as we would criticize an unwed mom for being 'promiscuous'. As for the financials, maximum teen moms are supported by their instantaneous relations no longer the authorities. They stay at homestead that enables you to proceed college and receive childcare from relations individuals. perhaps some human beings only sense that teen moms are unequipped to take care of a baby emotionally. In all honesty, i do not imagine you are able to practice your self for motherhood and in case you wait to have little ones till that's the "ideal time" you may want to finally end up on the different area of the spectrum and be 40 years previous on infertility remedies praying that that's no longer too overdue. We shouldn't decide human beings for figuring out at the same time as to initiate their households, too youthful or too previous.
2016-10-17 21:17:57 · answer #4 · answered by hafner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 18 and had one child. I am 37 years old and not a day goes by that I wished I had been older, more educated, married with a stable job befor I gave birth because the person who sacrifices for my mistakes is my daughter, whom I love with all my heart but she deserved more then I had to offer at 18. I imagine your parents are raising your children, or this is all a lie, because anyone with twins no matter what age would be to exhausted to get on the internet if they had been properly taking care of their kids. Grow up.
2007-03-25 22:35:12 · answer #5 · answered by Shyler 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
ooo yeah teen mothers that is just such a turn on and oh so classy what is wrong with you i know for a fact it wasnt jsut a spur of the moment thing you could have waited or used protection i had intercourse to many times to count when i was a teenager and never got a girl pregenant if i had a feeling i was going to i jsut wouldnt do it i am 25 now and i have a 3 daughter i am happy that u are a mom but u are the kinda girl that gives teens a bad name
2007-03-25 21:04:02 · answer #6 · answered by theomega76 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
WOW!!! Twins at 13?!?! I was 21 when my daughter was born and I'm stressed and worried everyday that I'm not doing the best for her. She's 16 months old now. 4 am I'm dead asleep, because I know in 3 hours she's up and screaming if she's in that crib for too long. I hope and pray you do what's best for those kids. PLEASE stay in school and get a college education. It's hard without one!!
2007-03-26 02:30:58 · answer #7 · answered by makalas_mommy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your parents or an older adult helps you out ALOT dont they?? You dont have to worry about paying the bills do you..?
I am very proud that you are taking care of your children and that you find it exciting.
Stay in school and go to college and get a degree so as the older you get and the older the children get you can support them and give them a good life.
2007-03-26 00:09:19 · answer #8 · answered by LadyCatherine 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
mary kate, according to my time frame, it is 4:30 in the morning in Miami... what are you doing on the computer, trying to find other children who are having babies to be friends with??... if you really are a 13 year old with twins then you need to be sleeping, not playing on the computer! and please please do yourself a favor and stop sleeping with guys until you are married!!! Show yourself at least that much respect!!
2007-03-25 21:32:51 · answer #9 · answered by mommy of 3 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
children raising children...with twins, nonetheless. hopefully the BOY that you had sex with is going to get a paper route to help pay for stuff. of course it's exciting...you have two baby dolls to play with! i hope you learned about birth control, and that you need to use it from now on. i hope you plan on getting your diploma or GED. good luck.
2007-03-25 21:03:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋