My boyfriend has been really stressed down and not feeling well about his job situation. He has been trying really hard to get a new job, attending all different kinds of interviews while working full-time. He has pulled away from me during this time but he did explain to me that he needs to do that. I was not understanding of his stress and I became needy and I started to question him and doubt his love for me. This only made things worse between us. He tried to explain himself again but I still questioned him and I asked him if he is avoiding me. He got upset and yesterday he told me that he is not happy with me anymore and he is thinking about leaving. I asked him if it's his last decision and he said he needs time to think but he thinks he will leave. I sat down and wrote him a letter, where I said I was sorry for being so needy and mistrusting and I tried to appreciate all the good things he does for me. I am so sad and scared of loosing him. Do you think it's the end?
2007-03-25 20:48:48 · 5 answers · asked by Elisa N 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he read the letter, and if you talk to him and let him know that you love him and appreciate him, and you understand his problem and is behind him 100 percent, then he might not leave. right now you need to be his rock and shoulder to cry on. the last thing he needs is another burden - dont make yourself one.
2007-03-25 20:54:11 · answer #1 · answered by janishippiechick@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
possibly. but if you ask me, from the sounds of it, it's better if it does end. sounds like your marriage wouldn't be very successful if he's willing to leave over some stress at work. no worries girly. i really think it'd be better if he did leave now, before you get married and it becomes breaking a covanent with not only you, but God. i'm so sorry, babe. best wishes
2007-03-26 03:53:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes,it mit b end,,,,,bt remember thr is a "mit b",,it seems he cares about you.......or he wud ve dumped u straight away.......ur letter is good idea....go give it 2 him.
bt ur fears wil nt help in any way....prepare urself for anythng....evn tht breakup,,thnk u can handle things,,,,& also understand if ther was and is sm real love kind thng between u 2,he will b urs....sooner or later....dnt shed tears ...try ur best to stablize ths relation.
goodluck!
2007-03-26 04:00:10 · answer #3 · answered by shashi s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he says he will leave then believe me he will . He may decide to hang on for a while but eventually he will . Best thing to do is let him loose. Talk to him about your mistreatment and offer him your love and support rgardless of whether you stay together or not. But please, please, please, should he decide to leave, don't try to contact him in any way. If he wants you back he will make that move. keep your dignity .
2007-03-26 04:05:16 · answer #4 · answered by mahawi61 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go.
If a man doesn't want to be with you, then he's not good enough for you, either.
That's true on the first date and every date that follows.
2007-03-26 03:54:28 · answer #5 · answered by BOOM 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋