I've been dating my girlfriend for almost a while now. To me I feel like she is my True Love... I'm still not sure if we are destined to be together but She brings meaning to my life. I just want some pointers upon being the best so that I can be her last.. I want her to feel/know that she means the world to me but how can I do it....
2007-03-25 20:41:44 · 8 answers · asked by Bhojie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The following write up is for ALL COUPLES. Dating or married, men or women...
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Romance is a way to express your love, the icing on the cake... but don't wait for special occasions to express your love. Make sure that you nurture your loving relationship by practicing these basic habits in your day-to-day life. These may seem very basic, but how many do you do? Don't despair... it's never too late to adopt good, loving habits.
1. Say 'I Love You' at least once a day. Your partner does need to hear the words.
2. Kiss good-bye and hello. Throw in a hug while you're at it.
3. 'Date' your partner for the rest of your lives. Treat your partner even better than when you were dating... Remember that you are sweethearts ~ * open her door * straighten his tie * hold out her chair * hold hands when you're walking together
4. Don't sweat the small stuff. You can let his/her bad habits bother you to distraction... or you can accept them, and work around them. Does she leave the cap off the toothpaste? Buy separate tubes... Does he leave clothes laying around? Ignore them, or pick them up, remembering just how much he does for you in other ways. Or, make it easier for your partner to satisfy you... buy several clothes hampers and keep them handy.
5. Concentrate on the positive. Instead of thinking about the ways that s/he lets you down, think of all the positive things about your partner that drew you to them in the first place.
6. Take a breather when you're mad. Don't try to talk when either of you are angry. Take a few minutes to walk around the block, lay down, just get away from each other so you can regroup. A short break will allow you both to stay on track and discuss what's bothering you instead of accidently making personal insults that you will regret later.
7. Don't use your partner's secrets or weaknesses
against them... ever! What may seem insignificant, trivial, or cute to you may be serious to your partner. Recognize what is important to your partner, and don't discuss it with your friends, mother, his family, anyone! And certainly don't throw the words back at them in an argument. A loving relationship is one of the most intimate and trusting that anyone can have.
8. Think about your partner first. If both of you do this, then you can't help but win! Say 'yes' to your partner as often as possible... go to that sports event with him, get him out on that golf course because he loves golf, make life easier for your partner, and hopefully they will do the same for you!
9. R-E-S-P-E-C-T your partner. Don't badmouth your
partner to anyone! When you talk about your partner, let your respect and love shine through.
10. Find a way to regroup together every day. Discover what works well for you both... eat a meal together, meet for happy hour drinks, skip Leno at night and just lay in bed in the dark, take a walk around the block, etc. You can even mix things up and vary your routine. If one of you is travelling, call home at night just to hear their voice. The point is to spend time together daily, just talking or breathing the same air, feeling connected.
2007-03-25 20:47:47 · answer #1 · answered by AdultMale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I wasn't sure if you were talking about being the best love sexually or relationally. Either way, the best way is to tell her how you feel. Always treat her well. Always be truthful. Most importantly if she brings meaning into your life the best way that you can show her is to reflect it right back at her.
I'm honestly a little jealous because it sounds like you've got a good thing goin.
This question makes me feel all warm and fuzzy inside.
2007-03-25 20:47:05 · answer #2 · answered by Patrick E 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no answer to being the best lover. Your best lover is the one you love the most.
If she should have a change of heart one day, it doesn't matter how good a lover you are.
Put in all your heart in the relationship and let nature take its course.
2007-03-25 20:47:16 · answer #3 · answered by hattybatty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh you have the right person answering as I tell you that if you please her first, she will be puddy in your hands. love every square inch of her, tell her she is beautiful, tell her what you will do to her and how she will feel. Caress her, stroke her, kiss her, look into her eyes and be the best lover that you know we women must dream about.
2007-03-25 20:45:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
thats sweet. but all you can really do is be yourself. a friend as well as a lover. let her know by telling her. be honest and truthful and always communicate. all you can do is love her and tell her thats shes precious to you. trust me, unless shes an alien, she'll like to hear it. but please, dont try too hard. no one can tell you how to love her. good luck
2007-03-25 20:53:29 · answer #5 · answered by ~*LoSt*~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try romance---candle light dinners, bubble baths, massages, during love making try new positions and try to look in her eyes and tell her u love her...buy her flowers without letting her know, write her love letters
2007-03-25 20:48:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
never lie,be honest,be confident and bold,never leave her, share ever part of life worng or right,sad,happy,good ,bad
2007-03-25 22:57:33 · answer #7 · answered by Tia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
treat her with love
2007-03-25 20:44:45 · answer #8 · answered by Ah Fye . 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋