my guy that i have been talking too is some one i adore but do to his career he is traveling alot cause he is active in the armed forces . i wanna wait and see where this goes but i heard that 99% of long distance realtionships don't work this isnt an online romance we met threw mutal friend's. i just wanna make sure i'm doing the right thing.
2007-03-25 19:30:13 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
is he 'leaving' you? did he say he's leaving you? some women will wait for their man years and years thru their own life's ups and downs ...even through relationships kids divorce. if you leave your man because his job takes him away...you may spend another 10 years or more or less or more trying to meet up with someone to replace your 'adorable' guy. knowing he is returning to you is a wonderful thing. how special are you if he returns to you?
if the one you want...wants you....you are where we all wish we could be. peace
2007-03-25 19:38:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Long Distance relationships do not work. Try 100% of long distance relationships don't work. Take the time to do what you have to do, and let him do what it is he has to do. Whenever he comes around make time to see each other, any way that you like, but you have to remember that he is going to be leaving, and that you have to keep your emotions in line. When it's all said and done, and you both are in a point in your lives when you feel like you can make something work, then I would suggest that would be the time to put your efforts into starting a life together, but as of right now, as long as you guys are apart, you must face the realization that it won't work.
2007-03-25 19:37:00 · answer #2 · answered by Ray90813 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All relationships are work. Just because you don't see each other all the time does not mean that you can't make it happen! The time you do have together is all the more precious. Don't let untrue statistics influence you. Could you love this man for the rest of your life? If you never talked to him again, would that not bother you? These are questions you need to ask yourself.
2007-03-25 19:35:38 · answer #3 · answered by liebedich85 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships are very difficult to maintain. It takes two very independent people with plenty of self esteem to make it work. Even then, it will be hard. If you decide that you are truly in love with him, go for it. If you just like him, it is probably best that you maintain you friendship, but see other people.
2007-03-25 19:39:14 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure the odds are not in your favor. But that doesn't mean you should just give up. If you really love this guy, then keep going. It may not work, but at least you will have tried. Better to try than to always wonder.
2007-03-25 19:35:35 · answer #5 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think 4 months is a good volume of time for him to recover from his previous relationship. yet what happens while he is going domicile lower back? long distance relationships can paintings, by using the years. in case you're elementary with one yet another approximately what you're searching for!
2016-10-19 22:46:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
long distance relationship don't usual work out, if u wanna give it a try go ahead but don't be surprise if things end up like you said
2007-03-25 19:35:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't be wasting your time by pursuing a relationship with him. Long distance relationship are difficult! It takes committment and tenacity to make them work. You gotta want it BAD!
2007-03-25 19:34:48 · answer #8 · answered by jimmyjohn 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You r rite my dear.
Long distance communication signal tense to distorted but cherish.
Short distance communication signal tense to get close & imtimate but lots of take for granted issues.
So..write an official memo to him..
"Dear SIR, I'm a woman, my time is losing out.
Please advise your sentiments & commitment to convince
my stand. I do appreciate your immediate response.
Thank Sir"
Note to u. Regardless wat reply from him. Your sentiments will
betray you and still wait for him. Proof of Concept (POC) .. its very ugly & miserable when you reach retirement.
Care Bear.
2007-03-25 19:42:52 · answer #9 · answered by amichubby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hellllllllll no guys cheats and my long time fiance is living proof of long distance relationship not working even if you want to continue still date othe peeople cause believe me even when he tell you hes not his lyingggggggg
2007-03-25 19:34:49 · answer #10 · answered by dont fuck with me 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋