Well I got a GirlFriend from last five years,When we met first time she was in tention coz of sepretion of her pearents,but now her family is doing well and once she said that i love u coz that time you were with me,and she is now taking me granted ,she want me to call her every one hour even if i m bz,and if she is bz she is not calling me.she want me to follow her every demand,but honestly now i want to leave her coz she became proudy...every morning i wake up i think bout her...tell me how can i forget her..??
2007-03-25 19:26:23 · 5 answers · asked by sureshflourish 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is very easy. A relationship allows both to breath. Do you want a relationship that is suffocating you day in and day out?
You are suppose to enjoy the magical moment of reciprocity, but what you got is selfishness. The way things are going, I can not see the slightest trace of love from her.
Get out of that... fast! Forgetting her is in the offing.
2007-03-25 19:42:34 · answer #1 · answered by september 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's no such thing as forgetting the people in your life. They are there for a reason, whether positive or negative, the enrichment of each experience is in the remembering, not the forgetting.
What you're really trying to do is escape the pain you're currently in which is ALWAYS temporary.
Pain can mend with mindful thoughts and actions. People say it takes time, not realizing that it just takes time to begin the process of being mindful and doing positive acts. You could escape your pain in a split second if you chose to look at it for all it's worth and see it as it truly is.
First thing to do is to communicate clearly. Allow her to communicate back in her own way without your interjections or objections or even agreements.
If that doesn't work, offer counseling.
If that doesn't work then I would suggestion a temporary separation.
If that doesn't work you would have exhausted all that is in your ability. The next step should become really clear.
Learn by remembering, not forgetting. Separate the pain from the experience and you will transcend to a happier state.
2007-03-25 20:03:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
whoever stated Jannah is a place "no eyes has considered, no ear has heard", you have a wealth of information on it :-) wanna upload a river to the record : Kauthar Q ch 108 v one million. Verily, we've granted you (O Muhammad ()) Al-Kauthar (a river in Paradise); jazakallah o khair
2016-10-20 11:32:54 · answer #3 · answered by leong 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not going to forget her unless you break up under good terms and everything is mutual. Even then it will take time. You should tell her how you feel though, maybe she doesn't realize what she is doing. Try to work things out.
2007-03-25 19:31:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds kind of bossy. What a control freak, very demanding.
My boyfriend took me for granted and now he's all alone.
2007-03-25 19:37:45 · answer #5 · answered by juniper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋