every guy i have dated thinks he is the man. i got news for most of the men i have ever known, my hand probably does a better job
2007-03-25 19:21:57 · 31 answers · asked by shelli 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I never met a girl quite like you. I guess it was just my luck, but men are always going to try and the more you say no the more we are always going to want it.
Note; I didn't say we always got it but I have read some of the other male responses and they are even in here trying to charm you out of your panties.........go figure
Note; when my daughter was growing up I let all of her boy friends know that I had no problem going back to prison and would if they did some thing.
2007-03-25 19:25:24 · answer #1 · answered by ffperki 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Guys come across easy girls all the time. Sex on the first date is normal to most guys. Be different and hold off for a couple of dates. How could you expect a guy to respect you if you can't respect yourself. As far as your hand doing a better job.... you've had your hand all your life and how long do you know these guys? Just like you explored your body to find out what felt good sometimes a guy need a little help.
2007-03-25 19:30:39 · answer #2 · answered by loveangel 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sex is everywhere, TV, news, movies, magazines. So many girls now a days dress, talk and act like they are selling sex. It puts out a message to guys that if it's out there, I'm gonna try and take it. When they get face to face with a real woman, they don't realize, Hey! I'm a person here and I am more than my hormones. Also, if it is a young man, their hormones tend to take over their brain. Now that's not an excuse for bad behavior. You don't ever have to do anything with a guy you don't want to. Not even with your hand.
A first several dates are about getting to know each other, not getting him off. If that's what he wants, hand him a five dollar bill to buy some hand lotion and tissue. Have respect for yourself and hold out for more. Sex will come when you AND your partner are ready. Then it will be good. You have a right to set limits and no dirty name is true. You have that right no matter what anyone says. If he does't like it, there will be some other wonderful guy who does.
2007-03-25 19:29:08 · answer #3 · answered by jamlinrich 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
A large portion of guys are pigs (players), or are desperate ("nice guys").
Two possibilities: a) you're attractive and you don't screen out assholes from the second you meet them and they offer to buy you a drink (get rid of ANYONE you meet that way). b) You're attracting the wrong type of guys because of where you meet them. I.E. the bar, club, or other nightlife related places. If you're not getting the results you want YOU need to change something, or at least UNDERSTAND why that's the way it is. The ONLY common denominator between ALL these people is YOU.
If it's the second one, then try places that guys that you would like to meet will be. Athletic guys? Try the gym, a karate studio, a rock climbing demonstration. Spontaneous guys? Try a dance class, a comedy class, acting class, etc... I'm sure you can think of more that apply to you.
2007-03-25 19:23:36 · answer #4 · answered by Waddy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The truth is, Shelli, that most men look upon most women as eligible sex partners. There really is a difference between the sexes as to how we view each other. Women seem to want a lot of holding, touching, cuddling and comforting experiences. Men want sex. Now. Before now. After now. We're talking about primitive urges that have been implanted for over a million years. Civilization teaches us to control our urges, to live with each other without acting out our impulses and to communicate with something other than a club. Most of the time. Recognize this in men and tolerate it. The good men will respect you and wait until you give the proper signals. The others aren't worth spending time with anyway.
2007-03-25 19:27:41 · answer #5 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It depends on two things: 1) how hot the girl is. 2) how much of a pain in the @ss she is. If a girl is not putting out, she better be very hot and very low maintenance. If she's a pain in the @ss and holding out on you, run. It can only get worse.
2016-03-29 06:12:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you asking why do they think they can get into YOUR pants? You personally? Or was that a generalization?
If it's you personally, then you have to look at yourself partially. Do you dress provocatively? Do you flirt a little too well? Has someone given you a reputation?
If it's a generalization...Well, guys will always try to get into a date's pants. Whether they really think they will make it is irrelevant. They want to, and figure if they try and fail they can just try again later, but it just might work.
2007-03-25 19:28:59 · answer #7 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Guys think this because the girl they dated before you let them into her pants on the first date, so they assume all girls will fall for their charms. Guys have to start realising most girls sleep with them because they are horny and not because they said or did the right thing.
2007-03-25 19:24:58 · answer #8 · answered by wickedly_funny66 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I've always just relaxed, been a gentleman & go out and have a good time, with no expectations of scoring. I let her decide when the time is right, and sometimes it's at the end of a first date!
2007-03-25 19:26:04 · answer #9 · answered by jimmyjohn 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You're dating the wrong guys. Are they all from the same place? If they are all from bars, maybe you should fish elsewhere.
Some girls tell me they just had their period after the first date, but these were all from clubs.
2007-03-25 19:29:42 · answer #10 · answered by AZN D 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋