I have been living with my girlfriend for almost a year now but we only recently got another housemate to help with the rent. My girlfriend enjoys teasing him by kissing me a lot infront of him and then telling him to do certain chores around the house if he wants to see more. I feel a little bad turning this guy into our maid but I am loving the attention my girlfriend is giving me. Is this evil of me?
I noticed that he sits out side our bedroom door whenever we make love. I think its kind of cute in a sad puppy kind of way.
2007-03-25 18:43:37 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well you seem to be able to crack the whip and off he goes! sounds like you've got a potential slave there. maybe your gf is just an extrovert and enjoys showing what she can do in front of guys...but its wrong to show him and then make him do your dirty work. Maybe you should tell your gf you want attention like that all the time not just when this guys around. and the fact that he sits outside your bedroom door when your at it (no such thing as making love...you have a good **** and thats about it!) thats a bit creepy...he might turn inot some psycho pervert and try and share the fun one day because he got so frutrated he was just going to explode
2007-03-25 20:59:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's all just a joke then fine
But if not, that kind of thing could be seriously ****ing with his head and its a stupid thing to do when you're all stuck living together.
You can tell the situation by the way he takes it when you two tell him to do chores, if he seems desperate for more in any way then you need to take things a bit more seriously than you have... if he does it for a laugh then let him keep doing it, it sounds like he's got a fair deal to me.
But if the guy gets obsessed with you two then you're just leading him on, using him and even damaging his potential relationships... I know guys usually seem as sensitive as a sack of potatoes and are probably great fun to **** with but no woman will ever understand the strength of feeling that sexy lesbians can stir up in a man, I say it jokingly but I'm deadly serious, it's a very weird feeling that goes beyond simple horniness and you shouldn't treat it as something for your amusement unless you're completely sure the guy can handle it... although having said that your post about the dog collar makes it sound quite chilled out, btw I got my gf one from a normal sex shop so I'm sure they're everywhere and it doesn't look tacky or cheap (well as far as a dog collar can)
2007-03-26 07:44:20 · answer #2 · answered by EselNoek 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This was a good one (to quote "Puss N Boots" from Shrek: "Makes me laugh!")...
First, it IS a LITTLE evil, just to get that out of the way, but it's evil on the level of grabbing a stranger's *** for the hell of it: wrong but it won't send you to hell or make you a Dark Lord of the Sith.
OK, a lot of your issue depends on the kind of guy he is and the context of your teasing.
Context: if you're ONLY promising him a "show," i.e. your roommate isn't dangling "maybe we can do a threesome down the road" carrot out there, then you're on solid ground. If you're telling him that if he does xx and MAAAYBE you'll invite him into the sack, then a little less solid.
The Guy: if he is socially adjusted, gets out of the house, and dates (or tries to with some moderate success), then it's just for fun and he knows it's not serious. If he's a step above a "shut in" and doesn't socialize with women, then you're screwing up his head big time, because in his fantasy world, he's got a shot with one or both of you.
It boils down to: if everyone (including him) is clear that this is just a fun/funny thing and laughing about how guys love to see girl on girl (and, BOY do we love it), then you're OK...if this is some poor schlub that can't get a date to save his life and his only shot at hearing a girl moan is what he hears outside of your bedroom when you two are together, then it's messed up.
Me, I'd love it, but I'd never sign up for more chores just to see two girls go at it...just watch some late night skinimax and you can get more than that!
Hope that helps!
2007-03-26 13:25:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I answered the other post before seeing this one, and if what you said in both is true then you´re walking a slippery path.
Personally i think, after reading both i hasten to add, that you really need to take a close look at yourselves and your relationship. Just how far are you prepared to go with your GF´S
behaviour. What do you really want out of the relationship?!
I have this feeling that you are heading for a fall because you don´t seem to be taking the relationship seriously at all. It is sounding more of a game, a thrill that will soon wear off.
Do you really love her as you claim? Or are these posts a wind up?
2007-03-25 20:04:17 · answer #4 · answered by titus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not evil, at least not on your part. You're just enjoying the attention. But your girlfriend is being a bit mean by using this guy like that.
2007-03-25 22:20:14 · answer #5 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, well I think you two are having fun at someone Else's expense.
If you don't mind it and he doesn't mind it,then I guess there is not much wrong with it,but I think you need to look inside yourself and figure out why your doing this.
Its not evil.but there is something lacking..
Does your girl want a threesome ??
I mean if that something you are both into,then I would go with the flow and let it happen if everyone is game.
Otherwise if its all just a game,you may come home one day and find two people together and it may not include yourself
2007-03-25 18:57:00 · answer #6 · answered by country_girl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All three of you are some sick degenerates. You will buy fried ice cream in a 111 degree heat. Your stud-girl is pimpin both of you tricks. Partna is most definitely touching on himself on the other side of the door you dig, but y'all already know he is. He's not going to slip on a wet banana on a rainy day and hurt his own self. He is a real sucka!!!, and guess what!!!! YOU ARE TOO STUPID!!!!!!!!
2007-03-25 19:00:26 · answer #7 · answered by triple o.g. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody enjoys to get attention, but think about giving this guy a hand.
2007-03-25 18:50:54 · answer #8 · answered by EllaBelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy!
2007-03-25 18:58:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cute as it may be, It is just simply sad.
If he goes along with it and you two have no problem, I don't see what the harm is. He's obviously a grown boy. Just set limits and see where it goes
2007-03-25 18:50:08 · answer #10 · answered by P L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋