so i'ved slept and done ''STUFF'' with 9 guys in middle school. and nosy people keep on finding out!!! alot of people hate me sooo bad and just DON'T LIKE ME. its anoying and 3 of my best friends got pissed at me and spread even MORE rummors that weren't true!! just because i slept with her brother the night of a sleep over but how was i supposed to help myself when he was just hitting on me and kissing me the whole damm night and plus he's ******* SEXXI he's a wrestler(not pro). but yea anyways...how can i get rid of my bad reputation???. and now that im in High school, my reputation has gotten worse.
i really want to stop sleeping around and i need help with my addiction to sex :(. but
yea back to my question.!!!!
how can i make my reputation... not so bad.??!?!?!
what kind of good innocent things can i do
oh and i don't have std's or nothin, i get tested every 2 months, for those of you that are gonna be critizizing me.
-nini <33
2007-03-25 18:42:49 · 7 answers · asked by [[*~umm yea~*]] 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
modus ur retarted.
i already moved schools a month ago and the rummors just follow me everywere i go!!
and besides...its not football season yet
2007-03-26 08:11:29 · update #1
Its hard to get rid of a bad rep when ur stil school age. ppl at my old school remember EVERYTHIGN about EVERYOEN from kidngergarten to 12th grade. one thing u can do for yourself and to stop giving them stuff to talk about - is not to be ou and around having sex. if u kieep on sleeping around u r giving them MORE ammo. let them beat the old horse to death and be doen with it but dont feed the rumor mill.
2007-03-25 18:48:06 · answer #1 · answered by lady26 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh boy, do u know that a women's pride is her reputation?? not that i need to tell u that now, but once tainted always tainted.
The best u can do is to make it lighter, how?? get yourself a steady boyfriend, & u have to be together for a year min!!
People will start realizing that love was all u needed to remain faithfull.
The other option is to remain single, & "No" yourself throughout the year...what does that mean: that u say no to every guy that askes u out, or attempts to kiss u.
They'll wonder why all of a sudden u playing hard to get. &in ur case it will take a couple of "No"s to get u on better grounds.
...so whats it gonna be honey????......
2007-03-26 01:53:40 · answer #2 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the best way to overcome the present situation is not to isolate yourself. Be more visible and mix up with more people. Be friendly and avoid repetition of past.
As more and more people know that you are just extrovert but not "that" type of girl, perhaps, they may consider that your reputation is just "rumours". Also, if they do not get any new topic to discuss about you, then they will find the same for some one else because they need something spicy to discuss all the time. If they do not get any spicy stuff to discuss about you, they will find something else and leave you.
2007-03-26 01:55:52 · answer #3 · answered by dipakrashmi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FOR CHRISTS SAKE! 9? Im sorry but your a sl*ut through and through, and no matter how tight you plug your hole you'll never get rid of that reputation. You've done the rounds, and no one will come near you ever again. Unless you move schools of course, then you can fuc*k their football team
2007-03-26 01:48:44 · answer #4 · answered by Modus Operandi 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Idk if you can completely erase your bad rep. But you can start by not sleeping around anymore. And maybe even settle down and go out with someone and have a real relationship. Show people that your not just what they think you are.
2007-03-26 01:51:15 · answer #5 · answered by Riceguy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
before you make a move,think first wisely and most of all have self respect,so that you may gain respect from others too,change your image,think wisely before you do it.
2007-03-26 01:50:31 · answer #6 · answered by andrew 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am scared of u...
2007-03-26 01:58:53 · answer #7 · answered by naresh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋